The silent treatment is 100% a move by someone not in control of their emotions. Stop that now, it will get you no where in life.
If you feel you were wrong, go to him, to his house to see if you can patch things up. If you guys are going to continue and dont want all the drama then you will both have to actually start communicating with each other
sure, i agree with that. it's not to say that OP's boyfriend is handling this the proper way but to give credence to the hypothetical. let's say OP has this pattern of behavior where she will suddenly make an idiotic, impulsive decision and then completely cut-off contact for hours.
perhaps it's not the first time OP's boyfriend has been in this situation? like, maybe OP just does shit like this and is just fine after the fact but has the boyfriend worrying for several hours on end before she decides to resurface.. maybe he's just fed up and knows she's probably ok and has just decided to be done with it
Why the hell is she mooching off you when she has so much more? What a piece of work, using you for your much less money and looking down on you at the same time.
I love her to death and this has been absolute hell for me
Fixed it for you.
What you should be doing is realizing how toxic, and unstable this person is.
All she has done is break up with you, cheat, lie, and come crawling back to you.
She unblocks you so she gets your attention, and then taunts you with how happy she is.
The reason question here is… why have you not blocked her in return?
This girl is no good for you. The history between you two proves it.
Do you think this:
right now I feel exhausted and anxiety ridden to the point I just don’t care about anything anymore
Is any way to live life?… its not. And she is the source of it.
You deserve a healthy relationship elsewhere. Its time to stand up for yourself, block her and never look back.
I know it may be hard at first, but I promise you, long term it will be the best decision you ever made. Leaving a toxic person behind and having a genuine healthy love elsewhere.
So he’s an alcoholic cheating stalker??? You need to run from that relationship
Unfortunately, very real situation
The silent treatment is 100% a move by someone not in control of their emotions. Stop that now, it will get you no where in life.
If you feel you were wrong, go to him, to his house to see if you can patch things up. If you guys are going to continue and dont want all the drama then you will both have to actually start communicating with each other
sure, i agree with that. it's not to say that OP's boyfriend is handling this the proper way but to give credence to the hypothetical. let's say OP has this pattern of behavior where she will suddenly make an idiotic, impulsive decision and then completely cut-off contact for hours.
perhaps it's not the first time OP's boyfriend has been in this situation? like, maybe OP just does shit like this and is just fine after the fact but has the boyfriend worrying for several hours on end before she decides to resurface.. maybe he's just fed up and knows she's probably ok and has just decided to be done with it
Why the hell is she mooching off you when she has so much more? What a piece of work, using you for your much less money and looking down on you at the same time.
I love her to death and this has been absolute hell for me
Fixed it for you.
What you should be doing is realizing how toxic, and unstable this person is.
All she has done is break up with you, cheat, lie, and come crawling back to you.
She unblocks you so she gets your attention, and then taunts you with how happy she is.
The reason question here is… why have you not blocked her in return?
This girl is no good for you. The history between you two proves it.
Do you think this:
right now I feel exhausted and anxiety ridden to the point I just don’t care about anything anymore
Is any way to live life?… its not. And she is the source of it.
You deserve a healthy relationship elsewhere. Its time to stand up for yourself, block her and never look back.
I know it may be hard at first, but I promise you, long term it will be the best decision you ever made. Leaving a toxic person behind and having a genuine healthy love elsewhere.