Not exactly. There are many factors that can play out here. Is her bf not very good at writing and feels embarrassed? Does he have dyslexia or another learning disability? He is only 23, he may not yet know what he feels for her just yet because hes still getting to know her. Just because someone won't write you a letter upon request is no reason to rethink a relationship ???
You definitely didn’t waste two years. You’ve learned you can stand firm on your boundaries. And sometimes it just takes that long for people to show who they really are. He was at a place where he was comfortable enough to envision marriage and a life with you, which made him comfortable enough to drop his drop mask. Be happy you saw the real person before it was too late.
After a few years, you can see things clearer. Then both of you can decide whether to go ahead with the wedding.
Not exactly. There are many factors that can play out here. Is her bf not very good at writing and feels embarrassed? Does he have dyslexia or another learning disability? He is only 23, he may not yet know what he feels for her just yet because hes still getting to know her. Just because someone won't write you a letter upon request is no reason to rethink a relationship ???
You definitely didn’t waste two years. You’ve learned you can stand firm on your boundaries. And sometimes it just takes that long for people to show who they really are. He was at a place where he was comfortable enough to envision marriage and a life with you, which made him comfortable enough to drop his drop mask. Be happy you saw the real person before it was too late.
Enjoy your new puppy!