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Date: November 4, 2022
Very surprised at the ubiquity of the bail comments.
I don't think bailing is a bad idea and you shouldn't feel guilty if you choose to do so, and it's true that you shouldn't expect to be the one to “fix” him, but the person you describe is very similar to one of my best friends of over 15 years—except that I know his tears aren't fake—and for me and our platonic relationship, it's a manageable matter.
I described this guy for years as having “nervous issues” when explaining the matter to other mutual friends, often in the middle of restraining his arms via a hug to prevent him from beating himself over the head in these episodes when a mutual friend says something teasing but innocuous. A constant flood of “I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry,” etc.
Sometimes we'd let it peter out over minutes, but many of us friends with him over the years had learned we could snap him out of it by saying really dumb, absurd jokes that would confuse him for just a moment and then the laugh would pull him out of the self-harm. He also was a type-1 diabetic and experienced these episodes more frequently on sugar lows; I could command him to drink OJ or soda and we'd done this enough that my assertive tone would cut through his automatic frenzy and, while still feeling the feelings, he'd check his glucose meter, get up, drink something available, and process his heightened emotions internally without resuming the self-harm.
My friend has self-awareness, the support of a loving family, and a lifetime of medical help. I know he isn't identical to your current partner. But he dated a partner for 2 years (with these matters on full display) before they married, which they have been for several more years now. His outbursts are everpresent, but far less common than during our teens, and far more manageable because of both his experience and the experience of those of us surrounding him. They do not feel manipulative at all; they are just the curse that he still deals with when ordinary life goes a little dark on days. He is a caring, sharp man that is worth our very minimal amount of emotional stabilizing from time to time.
Later in life, similar descriptions have persuaded me that his “nervous issues” are probably some level of Asperger's/autism spectrum, but his parents have never brought it up, he's never described himself as having it, and I'm not equipped to make a diagnosis, so I keep that to myself. But I would look at tips from sources built to help people trying to work with autistic people with these types of mannerisms (the term Asperger's isn't well-received anymore). I cannot make the recommendation that you do what I would do as a teen, since I was a big enough dude plus already knew him intimately and long enough that I could physically stop him whenever needed, but if you can take my story and carve out similar applications as it fits to your reality, hopefully you can find a workable relationship with a man that you find worth it.
Question: how did you come across the activity on the watch? Do you have access to her watch/account and checked it on your own? Or did she offer this info to you as proof?
You didn't listen to your wife to begin with when she told you she was not likely to want to have children (10-20% is hovering on that not likely to want kids) and just assumed she would change her mind bc that's just the expectation people have about women.
And that's really unfortunate that you didn't listen to her and didn't take that seriously, to begin with, and entered into marriage understanding that there was a probability you would not have kids. Because now you're constantly making her cry in addition to basically betraying her.
Ultimately it is the woman's decision whether or not to have kids because it's the woman's body that has to change and accommodate a baby, and if she ultimately says it's not likely then you need to listen to that and be okay with it. And this is what men need to understand when it comes to having children. If there is ever a doubt that your (f) partner wants children, then make sure you're okay with not having them.
At the very least, stop bringing it up and making her cry. She did nothing wrong. She didn't change her mind. She was clear from the start and you entered into the marriage knowing she did not likely want children. And at the age of 35, it only gets more difficult for women and their bodies. So she's probably more at a 1-5% at this point.
So you can either get over it, since you should have listened in the first place, or you can choose to throw away what you have with your life for the possibility of maybe finding a partner that would want to have children with you. But stop guilting her over this. You're the one who is wrong here.
If you ask an alcoholic how many drinks he's had in one night, they'd probably say 1 or 2 drinks but in reality, everyone knows they've probably drunk half the bar but ok, you only cheated “twice”. FOH???
this is something im trying to get my head around.
Im 40 and have a date with a 27 year old woman tomorrow.
We knew each other casually from the dog park from 5 years ago.
Back then she was really just a uni student w a puppy and looked quite young. I had zero interest. Now im super keen for the date as we always had good chats and by her photos she's now most definitely an independent woman. But yeh. Im not looking for fun.