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I don’t really have much advice, but I do know that “swear words” are stored in their own pocket of your brain that you reach for when you feel pain or drop something etc. They’re like an automatic response almost.
Working on breathing exercises and emotional regulation exercises will be the most important thing, but in the meantime, try changing the words in your automatic bank. No matter the situation, try shifting from harsh curse words to softer or even comical words. It’ll take conscious effort but I’ve found my automatic words changing both consciously and unconsciously over the years, so I reckon it can be done.
But look into self regulation and conflict deescalation skills too. DBT has a lot of useful ones.
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Dude… so sorry bro. That really sucks. I'm guessing she was maybe just pretty buzzed and didn't think of the kiss like you did. That's a really shitty feeling.
You don’t have personal stuff there, just a cat right? Could you go back to Georgia? However you are able to leave, it’s best to do it while he isn’t there. He’s been in trouble before, do NOT assume he wouldn’t resort to violence to keep you.
Well you kinda fucked yourself on this one, literally all of this would have been avoided had you just blocked the guy. You knew he repeatedly called you out of the blue but didn't think at some point it might happen while with your boyfriend?
Tell your boyfriend and just deal with whatever happens after.
I’m scared I’ll feel that way (missing out on something special) if I do leave too. That’s why it feels so confusing and overwhelming for me. Head vs heart I suppose
I don’t really have much advice, but I do know that “swear words” are stored in their own pocket of your brain that you reach for when you feel pain or drop something etc. They’re like an automatic response almost.
Working on breathing exercises and emotional regulation exercises will be the most important thing, but in the meantime, try changing the words in your automatic bank. No matter the situation, try shifting from harsh curse words to softer or even comical words. It’ll take conscious effort but I’ve found my automatic words changing both consciously and unconsciously over the years, so I reckon it can be done.
But look into self regulation and conflict deescalation skills too. DBT has a lot of useful ones.
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He kissed me for a few seconds before I think he realised I was uncomfortable and he pulled away
Last time someone conveyed a story like this they kissed back for a long time and then felt guilty and said it like you did.
Sounds like a shitshow on both sides, really.
Dude… so sorry bro. That really sucks. I'm guessing she was maybe just pretty buzzed and didn't think of the kiss like you did. That's a really shitty feeling.
It’s 100% her too. Unless he made her get hot in which case it’s sexual assault or worse
You don’t have personal stuff there, just a cat right? Could you go back to Georgia? However you are able to leave, it’s best to do it while he isn’t there. He’s been in trouble before, do NOT assume he wouldn’t resort to violence to keep you.
Well you kinda fucked yourself on this one, literally all of this would have been avoided had you just blocked the guy. You knew he repeatedly called you out of the blue but didn't think at some point it might happen while with your boyfriend?
Tell your boyfriend and just deal with whatever happens after.
She trying to groom you bro
I’m scared I’ll feel that way (missing out on something special) if I do leave too. That’s why it feels so confusing and overwhelming for me. Head vs heart I suppose