Hey, it’s your time. If you want to wait and see how it goes, do that. I don’t think I’d keep dragging it out but I don’t like wasting time.
When I started dating again after my divorce at 39YO, I went on ~25 first dates, 10 second, and 1 third over the course of 2 mos. 3rd date guy is my partner of 5 years now. I usually knew right away if I felt chemistry or not. And then it was more about learning about their beliefs and goals and evaluating if there was alignment. I didn’t spend a lot of time messaging or talking on the phone beforehand or between dates as I feel like you can really like someone’s thoughts and feelings and invest a lot of time in that only to find that there’s just no chemistry and it was a waste of time. But for me, sex and chemistry are important.
The kids are mostly grown besides one who’s 17. He also mentioned if he’s caught with me before the divorce is final, his wife can say infidelity and take him for a ride with that.
I feel like it's not fair to my wife
Classic abusive signs. Do not marry him. I’d break up,and sue him for half your money back. This guy is dangerous.
well first, cancel the gym membership for her. it sounds like you're paying it monthly.
secondly, go to any gym location you want, when you want, because she won't be member anymore.
oh , and i suppose there was a zeroth part as well. break up with her.
Hey, it’s your time. If you want to wait and see how it goes, do that. I don’t think I’d keep dragging it out but I don’t like wasting time.
When I started dating again after my divorce at 39YO, I went on ~25 first dates, 10 second, and 1 third over the course of 2 mos. 3rd date guy is my partner of 5 years now. I usually knew right away if I felt chemistry or not. And then it was more about learning about their beliefs and goals and evaluating if there was alignment. I didn’t spend a lot of time messaging or talking on the phone beforehand or between dates as I feel like you can really like someone’s thoughts and feelings and invest a lot of time in that only to find that there’s just no chemistry and it was a waste of time. But for me, sex and chemistry are important.
The kids are mostly grown besides one who’s 17. He also mentioned if he’s caught with me before the divorce is final, his wife can say infidelity and take him for a ride with that.