Yes, #5 is dealbreaker. OP, I very wanted kids and even with that mindset, there are many days that I question why I had them. I cannot imagine how a parent, who did not want kids in the first place, deals with this. Do yourself and any potential future kids a favor and move on from this guy. That or start working on process of getting your tubes tied ( I know it’s a long process that can take years unfortunately)
If you can recognize it, you can control it. Case in point, you know you're irrationally jealous and you know your family can't afford airpods so don't beg for them. Go see a therapist. This will wreck your whole life if you don't get it under control. There will always be somebody with more money and better stuff than you.
Just tell her, not only she is making choices,she is choosing the consequences.
Yes, #5 is dealbreaker. OP, I very wanted kids and even with that mindset, there are many days that I question why I had them. I cannot imagine how a parent, who did not want kids in the first place, deals with this. Do yourself and any potential future kids a favor and move on from this guy. That or start working on process of getting your tubes tied ( I know it’s a long process that can take years unfortunately)
If you can recognize it, you can control it. Case in point, you know you're irrationally jealous and you know your family can't afford airpods so don't beg for them. Go see a therapist. This will wreck your whole life if you don't get it under control. There will always be somebody with more money and better stuff than you.
Then you realize that one can rinse their vulva without taking a shower?