BTW you are giving A LOT of very specific details so people are going to figure out who she and everyone is if they know anyone you’re talking about.
You can't ever give up a dream for a possible relationship. You have to have a mature conversation- maybe show her this post and explain the reasons why you've been wanting to do this, even before you met her. Do it now and apply for the visa now. Think about how you'll feel 10 years from now if you don't. Regrets are hard to live with.
Honestly I think we're just gonna have to agree to disagree then, imo it doesn't really matter if she's talking to her other ppl or not, the issue is kissing someone else in front of someone you were just kissing/flirting with and have confessed feelings for and are on an informal date with. You right that she ain't obligated to not kiss other men, but it's inconsiderate imo to do so right in front of him immediately after all that. If you see it differently that's cool then
Girl, run.
Never secretly fuck your friend's little sister.
That's basic code. Probably been written in cave drawings and hieroglyphs.
BTW you are giving A LOT of very specific details so people are going to figure out who she and everyone is if they know anyone you’re talking about.
You can't ever give up a dream for a possible relationship. You have to have a mature conversation- maybe show her this post and explain the reasons why you've been wanting to do this, even before you met her. Do it now and apply for the visa now. Think about how you'll feel 10 years from now if you don't. Regrets are hard to live with.
Honestly I think we're just gonna have to agree to disagree then, imo it doesn't really matter if she's talking to her other ppl or not, the issue is kissing someone else in front of someone you were just kissing/flirting with and have confessed feelings for and are on an informal date with. You right that she ain't obligated to not kiss other men, but it's inconsiderate imo to do so right in front of him immediately after all that. If you see it differently that's cool then