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Yeah, how is nobody thinking this. If the story is true, I’d be inclined to think parents were probably involved. God knows what went on…
“nothing will change except that you're aware of the situation” is such a baffling and tone deaf way to look at this situation, holy shit???
it CAN work, but only if everyone involved is happy and comfortable with it. you're included in everyone, and you're not happy.
You’re so right and I know my answer. I’m just here for backup when he tries to gaslight me!
You posted, “and we started catching feelings, and started our relationship once they were still together.”
So, you knew what he was capable of then, did you think he was going to be any different?
As far as I am concerned, people like him never change. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
In the future, find someone single.
Agreed
Once they bring up “poly/OR” talk, it's because she has already cheated or has a guy(s) lined up…Don't be naive and think this is over…
Hope we don't see you back here in a month's time singing the blues lol…
She didn’t just immediately leave she tried to say some stuff like “that’s not the same” “he’s gay it doesn’t matter” “if she’s actually lesbian and I have proof I wouldn’t care” but her tone was in a “I’m gonna agree with anything to win this argument” tone so I don’t think she was serious, especially when she gets upset at stuff like me following other girls on Instagram from before we started dating (which I recently cleared out and all I got was an “ok do whatever you want”) and after I provided adequate responses to hers she was silent and said she was going to leave
Talk to a lawyer and get a peternity test.
I would but I have no proof other than being blown off, honestly. They aren’t like touching eachother
They’re pulling eachothers hair and talking about kinks/turn ons
So, he wants to give anal. But I literally can’t take it. He’s well endowed and even attempting it makes me bleed. No matter how much lube or “relaxation”. So we compromise by me wearing a small butt plug during sex. He likes the look of it and the thought of it. So it’s not exactly what he wants, and not really what I want, but I dont mind and sometimes I do find it kind of hard. So it works.
First of all: you don’t have to do ANYTHING you don’t want to do.
Secondly: a man having sex with a woman isn’t gay.
For one I didn’t TELL him I didn’t want to be with him if he watched it I said I didn’t want to deal with some one who had an addiction to it again
Girl, those strippers were former sex buddies he didn't use protection with many years ago. It's obvious he didn't wanted a relationship with them back then and not now. As any responsible man, he wants to make sure he knows all his children. When you have minor children with someone else, communication with the other parent is going to happen.
As unexpected as this situation is, discuss and set boundaries for his communications with the exes (limit discussions with exes/mothers to talk about kid(s) and visits, school, financial support, etc.) Also, you should meet them (kids and mother(s)). Stay and sort it out with him, unless he is cheating (which I don't think so).
Yeah, it's messy but don't let ex strippers he never thought about until this situation make you insecure. I'm sure he had NO intention to make children with them, he's just stepping up just like you would expect.
And if he still has a “thing” for strippers, strip for him sometimes ?
However, if he cheated……run!
My two cents. Good luck.
Not really sure why your wages are necessary for this question. If you suspect something, ask him. If you still don't trust him after receiving his answer, move along. If you can't trust someone, why stay with that person?
THEY AREN’T EVEN ENGAGED!!!!
You seriously need therapy. I just read your post history, and it is all over the place.
One day ago you said you were in love with a guy you’ve been seeing for 4 months after ending your “toxic 7 year relationship.” Also one day ago your boyfriend of 7 years wants you to quit talking to your friends?
How old are you? I’m sorry, but I’d be shocked if you were over the age of 16. You and your relationships seem incredibly immature.
Leave, do not tie yourself to a gaslighting liar.
If you're living with your brother, move out and live your own life. If you get invited to something without her, don't go.
you shouldn't care very much about your brother's opinion of your GF since he isn't the one dating her. His feelings about her are far less important than your own.
Your brother's GF's opinion matters exactly zero.
Your brother's GF's family matters even less than zero. If they don't want you to bring your GF to something, don't go!
If you really do care more about what these other people think then please do break up with her so she can find somebody who doesn't act like he's 12 years old, who actually respects her and cares about her more than he cares about other people.
If you guilt trip him into doing what you want, it’s controlling and manipulative. If he views social media like it is nothing, it’s not as big of a deal as you are making it into.
lol. no bc that’s the intended use of the toilet. it just makes me uncomfortable that he masturbates on an appliance our guests use
How are he the one to blame? You cheated prior to dating your current boyfriend and kept a note of this guy
‘I feel uncomfortable with my partner in an exclusive relationship sharing hard photos or video with someone else. I consider that cheating.’ That’s it. No need to explain.
The red flag here is you are looking too hard for red flags, due to prior relationship trauma. He said he didn't want to settle down any time soon, not never. Now you quote him as saying he won't settle down. You are indeed taking his statement out of context. Maybe you need to work on your emotional reactions and self-confidence before you date, so you are not extra sensitive to problems that may not be there.
He's free to set boundaries about drugs and alcohol. You are free to live within those boundaries or move on. Both are reasonable.
You should have busted a nut all over her face.
Do you have to do anything? Sounds like she won’t be offering you the job. ?♀️
Nah. It's your nerves. You aren't choking to be considerate
If you accept this now, then be prepared to have the shit beat out of you in the future.
This is how this goes.
I'd never want to marry a virgin for this exact reason I'd always be worried that she'd want to try others because she feels she's missing out.
I know it's not what you want to hear but it could genuinely be a possibility, I hope with this last chance to manage to win but you also might have to face the music
just so you know buying a girl a £150 gift is a big deal. warning signs would of been going off in her head, as they should. she slept with someone because you dumped her. she probably thought you was fucking the co worker. tbh i think you probably was too.
you neglected your gf but spoil your co worker. come on that’s dodgy af!
Well, somebody’s husband has a crush on her newly single best friend that is seven years younger than you guys. I think you have a problem.
Did you see his comment on how many kids he’s had , he probably can’t fit then all in his house for a sleepover.
If it’s a literal medical reason then it’s legitimate.
Nope, nope, nope. She will be coming on your honeymoon if you stay with him.
I agree, showing her your post is a great idea. It was a bad idea to open up the relationship but what really seems to hurt you doesn't seem to be the new experiences that she is seeking but that she has stopped seeking goals together with you.
OP said goldendoodle.
Your boyfriend sounds like mine sometimes. I’ve put it on him being unknowingly insecure, so he project that onto me. He says im addicted to other peoples validation. Im not, I just like it. Who doesn’t like validation on things they do for others, when it’s with a pure heart?
I think what you’re doing is kind, and unselfish. There’s a reason people say that “The joy in giving”, many people like doing good deeds, because it makes them feel good. That doesn’t take away the act it self, your first intention is do something good for others, you’re just lucky that you’ve found something that you love doing that can benefit others.
This is not yours to fix. You have done nothing wrong.
Well, Cody can’t be that good of a friend or you would have never gotten this far. Letting someone vent to you about a friend and not sticking up for them or setting boundaries with the girlfriend is betrayal.
Not sure where you should go from here. Would probably be wise to not get so close with this chick that you totally don’t defend your friend or talk to him about what’s going on (early on of course).
You should let her know Cody is your friend and you don’t feel right discussing his relationship without him being here to defend himself or give his side.
Character is everything in life.
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A good mother would remove her children from that environment.
Yes, she is at best moving around piles of shit. There is no cleaning a hoarder house.
If you’re uncomfortable showering with them then that is your boundary to set. People have various opinions on this. My dad would shower with me sometimes, other times my mom would. I was so young I hardly remember it and it obviously stopped when I could wash myself and it would be inappropriate. It was just my dad helping to prepare me for school so my mom didn’t have to do everything.
If you’re upset about grandma showering then you will lose your mind if you find out how many hard elderly women are in every locker room your daughters are going in. Think about that next time you go swimming. Clearly MIL isn’t doing anything wrong so no need to make a big deal of it.
You’re being purposefully obtuse. We have one side of the story, sure. We can’t know that OP isn’t just lying about it, but then again we can’t know it’s not fake in it’s entirety. But this half assed “could have been” is so pointless. Realistically, it was not intended as a harmless comment. Especially if she took his comment as an attack. I don’t usually just randomly bring up peoples bodies as a harmless out of nowhere comment, like “yeah fatties generally think that.” If I did, I’d be an asshole.
Haha I was in the US Navy. The dad in this story just sounds incredibly extreme. Most veterans I know would never pressure their kids into enlisting.
it's not worth it, nor is it a classy thing to do.
you want to take something that ended on good terms and blow it right the hell up into drama? really bad idea IMO
It's time yo grow up. She had other options but chose to do that. Have an honest conversation about it and let her know exactly how you feel. Then, discuss boundaries. If you can both agree to them without coercion, great. If not, you have to consider that you may be incompatible in the long-term and need to part ways. It does not mean either of you is a bad person; just persons with different moral values.
but if he was visibly nervous, I’d be a bit sus tbh.
Ever asked a guy who secretly does butt stuff to himself about it? Cause I have, and I'll tell you right now 'visibly nervous' is exactly how I would describe it as they try to deny it.
I think you're right that she needs to basically read his response, but I think this thread is doing a disservice by so many people ignoring other possibilities for nervousness. She can't evaluate if it's cheating nerves or sex-shame nerves if she doesn't know to look for both.
You’re so racist. Damn. Way to judge all Black mine by racist stereotypes.
I’m out.
What a trash perspective. Good luck in what will inevitably be a terrible life for you.
I see it two ways. One, you stay and continue to piss and moan and be miserable complaining about how your life is ruined and you have no control or…
You talk to a lawyer about how custody could be arranged and at least have a chance at not being miserable. Path one you know is gonna be dogshit. Path too? Well, you don't know, but the outcomes there could be waaay more promising than they are now.
Yeah I read your fucking post. You're telling him after it's too late. He's a man. Just look over and say, in the moment, “hold my hand”. This isn't some Nicholas Sparks book where he magically fulfills every one of your romantic whims without even asking. Grow up.
And try to be nicer. I was answering your question.
Not sure I agree. Gaslighting is a deliberate campaign designed to destabilise someone and make them doubt their own reality. The bully's reaction here sounds defensive, like a child making it someone else's fault.
UPDATE: I broke up with her, it was more mature then I imagined it would be. Everything is fine, she was sad but she said if that’s what I want she respects it. Thank you for the help!❤️
“invalidate his feelings” girl are you for real???
They’ve also been together a year AND have a baby. OPs a mom now, probably getting too mature looking.
If you are genuinely afraid that he will harm himself, then you should call emergency services. Someone in that much pain needs professional help, and you cannot provide that help. So call the professionals and get that help.
And if he's a manipulative liar trying to keep you around as a punching bag (he is), then you'll prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that he's full of shit.
They make crypts. Like little pockets. The new ones can be deep in there unfortunately.
Easy? Her family has already announced med school doesn’t matter; that OP doesn’t matter. Wouldn’t surprise me if it doesn’t shake out that the wedding was purposely planned to conflict with graduation because they can’t let this girl shine.
OP, you need to walk the stage, future you isn’t going to forgive you if you go to the wedding.
While i understand your triggers as someone with triggers myself. l think you need to take a step back on this incident. He had something in his car that may trigger you and he decided to tell you before you saw it to lessen your trigger response or for you to decide if you even wanted to get in his car in the first place; and instead of telling him that you saw his effort or saying that you wont get in the car then; you tried to ignore him and snapped at him for trying to ease your burden.
You had no choice but to see it if you got in his car.
While it was harsh you do need to see a therapist to lessen your trigger response if nothing else.
You need to learn to see things from the other side not just yours
Easy? Her family has already announced med school doesn’t matter; that OP doesn’t matter. Wouldn’t surprise me if it doesn’t shake out that the wedding was purposely planned to conflict with graduation because they can’t let this girl shine.
OP, you need to walk the stage, future you isn’t going to forgive you if you go to the wedding.