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Date: October 22, 2022
take an innocent situation
somehow link it to something controversial to provoke a response
I don't think this is getting enough attention in these comments. The leap from “2016 had some great music” to “so murdering cops is cool, huh?” is so fuckng huge the dad could've leapt over the damn moon. I can't help but think the fact that the BF is a POC played a part in the dad bringing up this topic. He knew damn well what he was doing.
The BF handled himself so beautifully, too. From this alone, he sounds like a catch. The dad on the other hand…not so much.
Run girl- he’s a mommas boy and proud of it
I'll take that excuse at 18… 21 even… At 24 you gotta be like… 99% of the way into a mature adult, if you're not then it's likely you're just an immature person, some people are for life lol
As someone who was r*ped repeatedly by my biological father all throughout my childhood I am so fucking angry that someone who was never abused is trying to co-op trauma and suffering.
Yes, in 2023 we as a society have made a lot of progress regarding people being able to identify that they have trauma, even PTSD or CPTSD, but it is NEVER okay for people to just make up trauma. Or, in this case, to say she has the same trauma as her sisters. Just fucking NO.
I’m glad you are leaving her. She’s definitely an “I’m the main character” type and those people are not emotionally healthy. I am so sad for her sisters and I really fucking hope someone takes your report seriously and that her dad loses his job.
He won’t because he has money, let’s be honest, but at very least you can get the fuck away from this family.
Thank you SunnyTraveller. I do appreciate your comment and I am truly mindful of crossing any boundaries.
I have been so close to sharing to my husband but I know it will hurt him. I just haven't felt emotionally safe and secure to share to him.
I have asked her several times if she would be comfortable leaving the tip, but she never brings cash. She only uses her debit or credit card and thus tip is never left by her. I honestly don’t believe she’s left cash for a single date we have ever been on. The relationship was super serious quickly, we were looking at wedding venues 6 months in, but it has since been rough waters. Arguing about a lot of issues. The primary issue here is that because I’ve made her feel “bad” for ordering whatever she wants when we go out, she doesn’t feel the need or obligation to pay for any of our meals. It’s making me feel really shitty.
Yes I do fully trust him. I think it was more of me worrying about social pressures and judgment if he isn’t wearing a ring. I KNOW it’s dumb but it’s true. I have a habit that I know is unhealthy where I put way too much care into what other people think of me and my life. I ultimately know and understand that the opinions of others doesn’t matter and doesn’t affect my life but I have just always been worried of outside judgment in nearly every area of my life. It just has come to the surface when the topic of rings came up too.
Even though I would personally rather just get married at the courthouse, I still worry about what others would think of this and what judgments they would cast. It’s an unhealthy way to think and live but it’s really hard to drop a way of thinking that I’ve lived with my entire life. I will ultimately get married at the courthouse like I want and not wear a ring(or get the tattoo). I am deep down fine with that. I just need to get over caring what others think of me and my life
Trust your gut. Trust but verify.
I think some context about why she’s traveling, who’s she with, etc., would be helpful. Work trip with just him? Others?
Hymens don’t break. It’s not a barrier, otherwise we wouldn’t pass anything during our periods. This belongs on r/badwomensanatomy
Um, hell no!!
At the end of the day, she is an adult and you are not responsible for her physical or mental health nor for keeping a roof over her head.
Frankly, you’ve enabled her. If she didn’t have you as a safety net, she’d have had to address her issues and keep a job. If you held her to account at any point along the way letting her know this was not acceptable, she may have sought some help.
At this point, you’re resentful and miserable and need to get out.
Talk to an attorney. Consult a therapist for yourself too. I’m in the US so don’t know what social services are available where you guys live or what the rules around alimony are but I’m sure that an attorney could help with that.
It doesn’t matter anymore
I love a good passive-aggressive ??
OP, I had an eerily similar situation with my ex husband. At first he was all keen to work on it. I forgave him way too quickly, buried my feelings, didn’t ask the questions I wanted to ask.
Eight months later – cheating again.
Six months after that when I finally ended it – cheating again, but I didn’t even know it at the time. He confessed much later when we were finalizing the divorce and I just shrugged.
The way you had to drag the truth out of her, and the fact she didn’t cut him off – all the same for my situation. I ended up not only losing all trust for my ex, but also all respect. And I lost respect for myself for just accepting this as a new facet of marriage.
I hate to say that unless she shows real remorse and works on herself (and not just says she will), this will continue to happen until you finally realize you’ll be happier without all this pain.
You dont fly across the country for a FWB whom you don't have a history with, dude