When he's ready to talk, you might want to suggest that you both never ever see them again.
Her mistake was telling him what to do about his parents and I would suggest she never do that again.
His mistake was not telling her about his parents when she pushed to meet them. I also suggest she talk to him about opening up to her about things more so that this sort of thing doesn't happen again.
Yeah 44 here and I’m the same.
I think this is something you speak to a therapist about, not Reddit lol. We’re just people who love drama and sometimes give good advice.
When he's ready to talk, you might want to suggest that you both never ever see them again.
Her mistake was telling him what to do about his parents and I would suggest she never do that again.
His mistake was not telling her about his parents when she pushed to meet them. I also suggest she talk to him about opening up to her about things more so that this sort of thing doesn't happen again.
Is this a hill to die on? Apologize and move on. Maybe she overreacted, but still a fk up on your part.