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If you’re not dead set in the mindset, I would urge you to open the conversation without saying “this is what I want to do,” which for such a large intimate decision for a couple to make, she will likely react poorly having not been involved. You could say, I want us to have a very real discussion about the possibility of children. Talk about your experiences and fears. Talk about potentially adopting in this conversation so she can hear it and digest it. I have a feeling that a more difficult thing for her to to accept will be her wanting biological children with you, her partner and her lover, who she sees as wonderful as you are. She might want children that are a combination of you and her. So take the conversation slow and give each other time and space to listen to it and make the choice together. who knows, maybe she is certainly into adoption, and this will go down easier than expected.
I can’t begin to understand what it’s like for someone as a minority to grow up with racism, and perhaps framing it in the way of, I want to protect my children from someone hurting them is the best way you can explain it to her. It would also be a difficult thing for me to expect, as a white female who has dated people from minorities, simply because when I love someone I would want a child that’s part of both of us. But I hope you guys can come to some understanding.
She has an underdeveloped or undeveloped theory of mind. She believes everyone knows what she knows and vice versa. Not unusual in neurodivergent folks.
I think you should tell him you want to get married, not engaged. If you’ve already been together 7 years and you live together and you are buying a house together, “getting engaged” is just more of the same with a ring on your finger. If doesn’t want to marry you at this point he never going to.
This should be a deal breaker for you. What other reason to keep them than to watch them?
Besides putting yourself down (don't call yourself a 4), this reads like a healthy break up text. I think your head is in the right place, you sound like you know how to do emotional work. It is very normal to be sad about a breakup. You will be. But I think you see the writing on the wall.