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MadisonPeker Public Chat Channel #latina #teen #18 #bigass #smalltits
Date: November 7, 2022
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if you can keep all of the siblings together rather than just splitting them up in foster care that's great. try to make room in your house for them maybe just untill Christmas,it sounds bleek and you may find that you can only keep 1 or 2 kids but for now they need a home for a while.
My man.
You have the feeling she's being mean and inconsiderate because she is.
So you mention you have tried to talk to her about it and she brushes it off. I'm not sure how those conversations have gone, but you can try something like the following, if you want to make one more attempt:
First: reserve time for the conversation. Say something like “hey. I need to talk to you about something that's bothering me. Will you have some time later today?” (or whatever is appropriate). The reason for reserving time is to put a spotlight on the fact that you are having a discussion about a specific problem, and not just a passing conversation while you are talking about other things. it will also indicate to her that you want to have an actual serious discussion which, if she's a good partner, she will take equally as seriously.
Second: before you lay out the problem, request that she just listen without interrupting, and that you will afford her the chance to do the same. When it is her turn to speak, make sure you are actively listening, not just thinking of how you are going to reply. A good way to make sure you are actively listening is, after she is done speaking, you say “let me make sure I understand you…” then you paraphrase back what she said.
Third: when you are laying out the problem – don't use sentences that start with “you”. Those tend to sound accusatory, which in turn makes people go on the defensive. Instead, start your sentences with “I”. Speak about how her behavior makes you feel. Things like “I feel belittled and disrespected when you make fun of my accent by calling me Arnold. It was cute for a while but now I feel like it's just being mean, and it makes me sad that you have dismissed my feelings about it.” etc. There's no accusation there, only how her behavior has made you feel.
So her response is pretty pivotal here. If she again goes to “I'm just joking” or “you shouldn't take it so seriously” then that's really all you need to know, my man. That means her being able to make fun of you is more important than your feelings – and feel free to point out that exact thing, a'la: “so let me make sure I understand. Ypu being able to make fun of my accent is more important to you than the fact that you are hurting me by doing so?” And them dump this trash.
The opposite end of the spectrum for responses would be: “I am sorry. I really was just joking but I honestly didn't realize it bothered you so much. I will stop.” and then she actually STOPS. Saying she will stop is one thing. Actually stopping is another.
Of course there's always the petty route: any time she does it, just switch to Austrian. When she complains she doesn't understand you, just say that since she makes fun of your English so much, that you will just speak in your native tongue. But you know what? Don't do that.
At any rate. This will be a good test to see if it's worth continuing to be with her. Her response (in either direction) will tell you what you need to know, and hopefully solve the problem.
Good luck, my man.
you seem like a caring person, the type to out others before yourself. please, but please, run, run far and never look back.
Meaning?
Stand your ground because if you give in she is going to keep coming up with more things
Oh hahah that sucks, I feel u bro:/
Ok so first off I want to address the ‘men do what men do’ bc women / nonbinary people watch and enjoy porn too. Second masturbation is healthy and normal for any gender identity. Just bc you’re there doesn’t mean he should have sex with you instead. Masturbation and sex are two different things and sometimes you want want and sometimes you want the other.
What isn’t ok is you impeding his ability to have any privacy. It’s a little overboard to sit out side the bathroom and spy on your partner imo
I mean, it's a gay bar!
I appreciate the comment bro. People in this thread are acting so high mighty and seem to pass judgment on me. I get it I fucked up. But she did too. But at least I won’t lie about it
I think both things can be true here. GF did something that is possibly unforgivable AND the OP needs to get therapy before attempting another relationship. If he doesn't, the next one could very well end up the same, with a resentful and eventually angry partner who never stood a chance. For the sake of OP's daughter I think he needs help to process this grief and allow him to keep his late wife's memory as a healthy part of his and their child's life (and for anyone who may come into that life in the future).
Why do you care ? Let dudes that wanna be monogamous be with women that want the same. Stop trying to set the poor guy up for failure.
Everything described here says he is more content living with his roommate than anyone else. Is this the best living situation for him? Is he dependent on his roommate or taking advantage? Is he resistant to change? Is this all he wants out of a relationship?
OP PLEASE forward this to him.
Also dont date people who think youre lesser because of factors you cant control.
Being a sweaty alcoholic does not look good on anyone regardless of level of attractiveness.
Have a family meeting. Everyone goes to therapy. Everyone. Remind your step kids they still have 2 dads – one bio and one step. They still get you FT and bio PT. Unless you don’t want anything to do with them then that’s a whole other issue.
Then just play it cool. Don't be a dick but just go about your business. Especially if she is that fucking hot that she makes other women look like splay-legged milk nags
Please don't go back to him. Try to like yourself a little more.
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Leave him alone, now you are bisexual an in months you may want to explore your own sexuality, then threesomes and whatever. He is clear he wants to stay in a relationship with someone committed to him. Both are too young and need space and time to explore.
But now he’s trying to leave me for no good reason.
She will end the night in his bed. Its a tale as old as time
She will end the night in his bed. Its a tale as old as time
It's so naked to sell work as an artist. I tried to make it doing stained glass and later doing pottery. I got tons of compliments and rave reviews, but few sales. I tried shows, live!, and on consignment through stores. Pieces would sell but not enough to consider it a living. I eventually went to work full time and did my art on the side.
Without a reputation she's likely not going to make it as an artist. She's going to have to work (maybe she can get a related job for now such as in an art supply store) and keep plugging away on the side.
It sucks but that's the unfortunate nature of art.
It’s always the friend you don’t have to worry about. It’s a bunch of bs. Because even if it hasn’t gotten physical in regards to sex, it is certainly at least the beginning of emotional affair situation. Also the massages and cuddles are too intimate for someone who is not your SO. He AND Lisa need to understand appropriate boundaries. It’s disrespectful to you and the relationship.
Mind your own business or just ask her to give you an appointment as I notice you are so trying to deny you'd like that…
It’s the reality for many people who aren’t in a good place financially. You need to be able to drive for work and need to ensure that your insurance will pay for the other driver (which is key in terms of responsibility) but may not have the money to shell out any more than that. It also just doesn’t make sense for all cars. If you have a super cheap car old, paying hundreds in insurance each month just doesn’t make sense.
I dont think I can confront any of his family tbh. I have a lot of anxiety and we've never really gotten farther than small talk. It is weird that not one of them mentioned the similarities though.
Yeah, it is a bit, IMO.
Why are you mad at the random women?
People sometimes just hit on people who they find attractive or amicable.
Its on your boyfriend to make clear he's in a relationship and not interested. Don't say “he's too nice” that's not an excuse. He just likes the attention.
I personally would have handled it just as you did. It sucks no matter what. But this seems best. Friends don't always have the best advice. Also it shows you the selfish nature of some of your friends sooo keep that in mind
Wouldn’t that mean her relationship with you was toxic too? I don’t mean to criticize, just trying to point out that we are all flawed. Thank you for the suggestion though.
Ahaha what? As a bisexual dating another bisexual… What?
You don't need to “get it out of your system” as a bisexual. This is weird to request if you aren't a part of enm.
That's up to her to decide and not for the partner who wants to have sex with her to bring up. It will just come off as trying to pressure her into sex under the guise of, “looking out for her sexual health.”
Because we had been trying for awhile and couldn’t get pregnant until now
I like that euphemism. And, totally agree. It's sick of her to assume that people who have to do caretaking tasks must be thinking sexually just because they see genitals.
ok well you can’t force something that’s not 100% let her do her thing and thing you do you and don’t wait around for a second. no hate but is what it is
She would probably hold a grudge against me if she sees picture and posts how beautiful, safe and fun the meetup was.
That's fine, at least she'll be alive to do it.
I'm a bit like her in that I love the outdoor survivalist stuff and am sometimes impulsive and naive, but even I can see this is dangerous: she's got huge blinds on.
Show her the reactions to this post.
It takes two people to pull the relationship out of the gutter, you can't do it alone. If he's not pulling his end it's going to slide right back.
That’s so freaky that you end up with nails in your drink every time. Does he just keep a bottle of clippings with him and drop it in? Immediately tell him you have noticed this
paternity and STD test asap
You need to get this out now. Tell your boyfriend, text it, write him a letter to read, whatever, but tell him as soon as possible because this shitbag is going to take more advantage and spin his own narrative as soon as he can to paint himself in the best light possible, maybe even telling his version of the story as you initiating things and then balking.
I don't like AA because it's full of predators, but the very first thing they teach you is that you have to focus on the things you can control. Meaning: not other people. OP can't fix her partner, she can only fix herself. That's why I'm saying that she is the problem here. She is choosing to stay with someone who she is now claiming has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol and is a danger to her sobriety.
I'm not ignoring OPs partner's issues. But she can't do anything about that other than leave him. If his drinking is a danger to her sobriety than she needs to make changes. Her sobriety is not his responsibility. She never mentioned her alcohol issues (or his until she could weaponize it) in her original post. Why is that? Very missing missing reasons. I feel like OP came here to demonize their grieving partner while taking zero accountability for what it must have been like having his partner be active in alcohol addiction while he was losing his mother. His drinking impacts her, but her drinking doesn't impact him?
Totally normal for couples to split bills, nights out etc…
100% my plan. Thanks for your advice
100% my plan. Thanks for your advice
What does living in an island have to do with it? You’re communicating with us, we arent on that island. The island is not a barrier.
Goes to work at 8:30-9:00. Kind of progressively late but rather quickly (in a few weeks top). The culture at his firm is to stay late, but not that late. I know for a fact that he is always the last one to leave.
He has pain when peeing, is going to look into it. Could be an UTI or STD.
She knows why she's just putting you on the spot
What would his desire to fuck other ppl constantly make him feel guilty for being pampered by me? Bc he doesn’t want me?
Exactly! I don’t get why people give me dirty looks while reading Playboy on public transport? I’ts arrrrttttt guys. Jeez
I remember you. I remember writing that you need to end it asap.
Good to hear the update and that you follow your gut feeling.
Breakups no matter the situation are always HOT. It's painful and you're going to go through phases when you miss her and just want to see her/hear from her. But you can't avoid this pain, though, unfortunately. The only way through is to go through it.
But you did the right thing by blocking her, imo. You need a clean break. I think if you don't, you'll waver, and things will get even messier and she'll get more bitter against you if you waver and reconnect.
If I were you, put her e-mails in a totally different folder. Once you think you're ready, you can read it. Or you can also delete it too. Don't respond.
Tell your little boy of a husband to grow a dick already. God, what a baby.
It's a weird dictated error.
Lmao I'd be typing my own reddit post if i found tht shit out ??
Would you bother showing the photos to your partner if you ended up sleeping with the photographer though? Almost like it's evidence of the events leading upto it lol