I can't imagine finding pleasure in doing something in the bedroom that I knew my wife didn't enjoy. Sex is so much better when both parties throughly enjoy it.
Tell him to sit down and do it then. Can he do it? Is he faster at it than you? Of course not. How “hard” someone physically exerts themselves to work is irrelevant. It’s about the TIME is takes. And he should get more free time tha you.
So he moved into your place and started making demands about the way he wants things, huh?Since he moved in not long ago, you might consider moving him right back out before he roots too deeply. “Yeah this living together thing isn’t working for me. I don’t like what it’s doing to our relationship or my mental peace and free time. I’m going to need you to move out.”
You must not know what enablers are. You can dog whistle all you want and claim he's victim blaming, but I think you should actually understand how those words are meant to be used
At the absolute least, your wife is making herself seem untrustworthy by deleting texts. Which you know she did, because of the reasons you’ve described.
So, she’s a liar.
And on top of that, there’s a strong suspicion that there is at least an emotional affair going on with this new male colleague.
If she really wanted to have a successful marriage with you, I would think she would be doing anything she could to assuage your insecurities about her behavior.
I can't imagine finding pleasure in doing something in the bedroom that I knew my wife didn't enjoy. Sex is so much better when both parties throughly enjoy it.
my work isn’t as hot as his
Tell him to sit down and do it then. Can he do it? Is he faster at it than you? Of course not. How “hard” someone physically exerts themselves to work is irrelevant. It’s about the TIME is takes. And he should get more free time tha you.
So he moved into your place and started making demands about the way he wants things, huh?Since he moved in not long ago, you might consider moving him right back out before he roots too deeply. “Yeah this living together thing isn’t working for me. I don’t like what it’s doing to our relationship or my mental peace and free time. I’m going to need you to move out.”
There aren't photos of my mother pregnant but I am definitely her child, she was just really depressed during and after the pregnancy.
You must not know what enablers are. You can dog whistle all you want and claim he's victim blaming, but I think you should actually understand how those words are meant to be used
Blow it all the fuck up!!!!!!!!!
At the absolute least, your wife is making herself seem untrustworthy by deleting texts. Which you know she did, because of the reasons you’ve described.
So, she’s a liar.
And on top of that, there’s a strong suspicion that there is at least an emotional affair going on with this new male colleague.
If she really wanted to have a successful marriage with you, I would think she would be doing anything she could to assuage your insecurities about her behavior.