0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat Maddi_s_here
Model from:
Languages: en
Birth Date: 2003-06-14
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 7, 2022
I'm not sure if it's too early
It likely is, if you've only known him for two dates.
Known them for years and years
Oooook…this is not just two dates, then. Bit of a weird flex.
I read that as you guys having been friends for quite some time before dating. Although, I did end up saying the big ILY after a few months to my now partner. What was going through my mind was that I felt really comfortable being with her and the feeling was definitely mutual. We had so much in common and I wanted to tell her how I felt instead of beating around the bush about it.
I guess the question here is, what made him say it? And do you feel the same way?
With how you describe her it sounds like she wants a sugar dad more than a boyfriend.
Given how transactional she seems to think of relationships I would ask her what her view is of how she should contribute to the relationship.
Try to see it this way, with the money your father is giving her, he is trying to make up to her for all of the many things you got that he did not give to her. It's it not that he values you any less than her. She is his his child, and he abandoned her for you and your mother. That has probably eaten at him every waking day of his life since her birth.
If you could go back in time and choose, tuition, or 24 years with your father, which would you pick? Your father's and your half-sister's hearts are torn out and bleeding- they need healing, and you and your mom need to try to understand and forgive.
The sacrifice your father has already made to prove his love for you and your mother is astronomical.
Time to leave.
I'll be blunt and say he knows what he wants, and it's not marrying you. Your anxiety and “type A personality” isn't the problem. Had they been problems he would not have spent 6 years of his life with you.
Figure out what you're wanting out of life and have a reasonable timeline to focus on. This way when the next one comes along you won't waste years on another man who doesn't want the same things you do.
I think this is actually a case that NEEDS an ultimatum. Sorry but dont start a relationship with a married man. I would have asked for instant divorce/ annulation. If he wants to have a serious and committed relationship with me, he needs to show me he's available the fastest way possible.
In your case that moment already passed, so I support giving the ultimatum. 2 yrs is long enough and he's wasting YOUR precious 20s by dragging this on.
This is not a talk you have on the first date. But it’s certainly a talk that needs to happen before any commitments can be considered. Unfortunately when you make that big of a mistake in your life, the consequences might follow you as in some people may not want to be with you because you’ve abused others in the past. Especially if you’re hiding it.
Please don't take any personal advice from Reddit
It's between you and your partner and with the right communication you can work things out
It's “Us Vs the problem” not “you Vs him”