Okay here is another perspective. I broke up with my ex. I ended the relationship. Why? Because I decided I’d be happier dating another gender. Literally found myself realizing I could not be with this person because I wasn’t that sexually attracted to guys and he’s a big manly dude.
Yet when he started dating someone else years later and posted about being the happiest he’s ever been, I saw that Facebook post and cried.
I don’t have a torch for him, I don’t want to be with him, I’m not in love with him, I am happy he’s happy with someone else. I would literally go to this guys wedding happily. I literally identify as gay now… and I still had an emotional reaction because it brought up feelings about myself that I had not addressed. Nothing to do with wanting to have the relationship again.
In my case it was grief over letting go of a reality where I could’ve conformed to societal norms of being straight and having that entire life. The easier type of life.
Do you really believe she wants you dead?
You aren't being insecure.
Your boyfriend is a prick and bully.
Dump him.
What do the texts actually say?
Okay here is another perspective. I broke up with my ex. I ended the relationship. Why? Because I decided I’d be happier dating another gender. Literally found myself realizing I could not be with this person because I wasn’t that sexually attracted to guys and he’s a big manly dude.
Yet when he started dating someone else years later and posted about being the happiest he’s ever been, I saw that Facebook post and cried.
I don’t have a torch for him, I don’t want to be with him, I’m not in love with him, I am happy he’s happy with someone else. I would literally go to this guys wedding happily. I literally identify as gay now… and I still had an emotional reaction because it brought up feelings about myself that I had not addressed. Nothing to do with wanting to have the relationship again.
In my case it was grief over letting go of a reality where I could’ve conformed to societal norms of being straight and having that entire life. The easier type of life.
Literally nothing to do with him.