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Date: November 8, 2022
My husband and I have been together 16.5 years, married 13. I'm 47, he's 44.5.
Everytime I get naked in front of him, his mouth drops open and he comes to my side of the bed, if you get my meaning.
This is why you don't get married at 21. You change in your 20's.
Your husband is an asshole for saying this, and I'd be suspicious if I were you that something else is going on. I'd definitely hash this out with him more and find out what he's hiding.
Wth is this comment section? It doesn't matter if what she said was in stress or not because what she said was still said and if this is how she's going to be reacting or behaving then she needs some growing up to do.
Op, you are not wrong for wanting to leave a woman who had no hesitation in minimizing your emotions and also the fact that she told you to go die then.
Reasoning: I immediately got a flashback of how easily my parents say that to each other and I don't like this, I'm triggered by the comment section as well.
Take this as projecting but to me this is a big line crossed and you won't be “forgetting it” or “getting over it” anytime soon or even after a long time. Anytime she's angry you'll remember this.
You can talk to her about this saying:
” I still don't feel comfortable with what happened and what you said and to me it feels like an apology can't easily solve it, please give me some space to think about how to go forward now”.
Then you can think about what you really need and do not listen to most comments saying “stress stress stress” we say stupid stuff but there are consequences for saying those stupid stuff and not just the fact that we say it so we need to tolerate our partners being assholes in this sense.
I'm sorry but i suddenly feel like if genders were changed this would immediately be concluded as an emotionally abusive relationship which seems like it and that op should leave.
It's funny to me because it comes out of nowhere. There's analysis on what's going on and then “buy an air purifier”.
I don't need 1000 explanations of what an air purifier is. This sub is wild as hell sometimes.
I would not want to be involved with someone who would lie about a std that has no cure. This is something that you would have to disclose to every single person you are intimate with for the rest of your life. This would be a deal breaker for me.
I have oral herpes and have never received more than a 10 day supply of that drug. I go years without having a cold sore. I don't think it is worth getting the drug for a sore that will go away in a week or so.
I sincerely hope you don't have this std. It won't kill you, but is still a big deal.
I don't know. One tough question that he didn't act on, backpedaled on when challenged, and you are done?
My feeling is that he did not do anything wrong by asking and you didn't do anything wrong by saying no. You both have an opportunity to do something different if those boundaries are not given.
I mean, you have every right to be done. But to just be done after that feels like it must have been a super brittle marriage to begin with.
Also, if you are going into therapy with the notion that it is already done, rather than working on it, then it probably is done. I would recommend going in with a 'work on it' attitude if you want to be married. Hopefully, he will bring the same.