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To be honest, it sounds like something happened to change his perspective on this. My guess would be somehow he got into some bullshit traditional masculinity youtuber, or else had his head turned by someone with these “traditionally feminine” qualities. Either way, no, you should not change who you are because after ten years your husband decided he wants someone else. You may as well ask HIM to not be the sort of person who likes demure, feminine women–why isn't HE the one that should change?
This is messed up. What if you get a bad haircut or color one day? Wear clothing he doesn’t like? Gain or lose weight that causes him to be not attracted to you? Will he be in a bad mood for days, months, until the issues resolve? This seems like it could be the gateway to controlling and abusive behavior. You don’t need this crap!
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To be honest, it sounds like something happened to change his perspective on this. My guess would be somehow he got into some bullshit traditional masculinity youtuber, or else had his head turned by someone with these “traditionally feminine” qualities. Either way, no, you should not change who you are because after ten years your husband decided he wants someone else. You may as well ask HIM to not be the sort of person who likes demure, feminine women–why isn't HE the one that should change?
But I don't know how you come back from this.
New parking space available at new address. There is no reason for him to be this controlling! Are you sure he actually got the decal?
Just accept it my man you're wrong and looking for any excuse to save this marriage.
This is messed up. What if you get a bad haircut or color one day? Wear clothing he doesn’t like? Gain or lose weight that causes him to be not attracted to you? Will he be in a bad mood for days, months, until the issues resolve? This seems like it could be the gateway to controlling and abusive behavior. You don’t need this crap!
? I may be bad at my side of things, that's why I am looking for advices.