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Room for on-line sex video chat Lunar0Goddess
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Date: October 17, 2022
Hey, I get it. It's not a simple “just get over it”, it takes time and a lot of redirecting.
It takes time replacing the bad thoughts with the good. What are things that make you happy? Hobbies, music? Start filling your cup with things that bring you joy. Stay being kind to yourself, even if it's doing something small/ nice for you every day.
You enjoy very hot chocolate? Make yourself one! Do you enjoy bubble baths? Treat yourself to a soak. It doesn't have to be big things, or expensive, it just has to be something nice. Over time, redirecting becomes easier.
It's not an overnight solution. It takes time and patience, and you'll have bad days (which is where the therapy/ support network comes in). You're allowed to feel bad, as long as it's fleeting and not consuming.
I don't know if any of it helps, I do really hope you can find your peace.
Well I see why she's your ex.
You need to communicate 1.) what you need/want, and 2.) what’s important to you.
He’s not a mind reader, and most people I know don’t care about their birthdays at all.
So…speak up. Or, be upset.
LOL if this is real you would be the absolute dumbest human being to ever step foot on the planet
Men who run at the first signs of illness are aging are especially pathetic. YOU on the other hand are a fucking queen, you have had a spine of steel thus far and now you are going to need it more than ever to deal with the betrayal from this truly sad man. You will feel such relief when you are away from him and his garbage family.
The one with the commitment problem is him. Marriage confers quite a few important, tangible protections to spouses, that he wants to deny you. He wants the benefits of s committed relationship without the responsibilities that come with it. He is using you.
I open up with this because I want you to know something important. You were abused in every sense of the word.
What I read above has to be one of the most coercive and horrid things I've ever read a man do to their partner without physically laying hands on them. I could even define it, given your reaction, to a sort of vicarious SA (assault). Worse yet, dude went and blamed you for the actions he set in motion, that he coerced you into. I'm revoking his man &*#(@^& card unilaterally!
Next steps:
Get out of the situation Try to see it those months for what they were, abusive toward you Block this person from all forms of contact because nothing good can come of this If you do not already have one, seek a licensed professional psychologist/therapist Take the space and time to learn from it all, process it Don't assume worst of others going forward or allow yourself to be paralyzed by experience.
You’re right. It’s weird. Maybe he’s pulling away for different reasons?
No, because he’s not loyal to you. There’s so much out of character behavior these days. What I mean is behavior without character. He has shown where is loyalty is aware he really is emotionally mentally. And you can’t change that.
But here’s the thing you don’t have to live with it either and you don’t have to let that defined you as to your value. You only do that if you stay. So I would tell him that it’s over and he can do it. He needs to do now, and move forward with your own life.
You will find somebody who likes you and be much happier
Put up cameras in the house I’m sure she’s cheating
My wife is 30 lol.
Did you even read OP’s post?
Do the interview and if it's sounds good and is offered take it. If she ready to bail that easy then it's already over don't let her make you make a decision you'll regret
Yeah, I understand that the situation itself was already confusing (“close friends?!? I guess we were kind of close back in 2013???”). But your responses and asking her how she’s been is a very kind thing to do in general, whether you really were close friends or not. Never stop being kind, even if it’s awkward. The world needs more kindness. 🙂
So what if they are dating? Yea, it’s kinda weird if YOUR siblings to date, but THEY are not siblings or even related.
Oh my. You may want to reconsider a life with this person. It won’t become more harmonious, in fact you may grow to despise not just his behavior, but him as well.
This would be a dealbreaker for me. To me, kissing on the neck is just as intimate as on the lips, if not more so, especially if it's a sensitive zone during intimacy.
I'm not sure I believe the biting story. Biting could contribute to a hickey, but it's usually sucking that causes it. And the person has to be sucking for a period of time. This was not just a quick little bite, I don't believe that.
I could be wrong and someone can correct me if I am, but this feels off to me. I'd look deeper into this.
You are still missing the point. You have good intentions but that doesn't mean your partner is wrong for feeling uncomfortable with you going to a party and being out until 6am. Plenty of people go out and cheat on their partners at clubs without intending to.
I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you are looking for a friendship, I can tell you he doesn't have it. But what he does have is a very particular set of interests, interests he has acquired over a very long “friendship”. Interests that make him a nightmare for people like you. If you let him go now, that'll be the end of it. He will not ask you, he will not pursue you. But if you don't, he will look for you, he will find you, and he will ask you again and again… Good luck
You guys are so young and you were kids when you got together. What is the rush to get married?
Okay so if it's about being “old fashioned” it might interest her to know that back in the 1950's women did reciprocate after a few dates, even if it was just inviting the man over for dinner and they did spend time together beyond formal dates and after 2 years they were either ready to get engaged or move on. This indefinite formal dating idea of hers just doesn't make sense unless she is using you or seeing someone else.
Can you just say you’ve had a go, you’re not ready to explore it further right now, let’s have a great time doing xy&z instead and you’ll let him know when you’re ready (if)
he was really immature, he had irrational expectations and it was very harmful on my mental health as i would feel guilty that i wasn’t matching his expectations so we had to end things
True friendships between a man and a woman is not possible!!!
Thanks for the good points! I ended up apologizing to her for not communicating better.
So do people need to prepare parents for introductions in Cis relationships? No? Just LGBT? So it's homophobic?
Got it.