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Date: November 10, 2022
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I had my dad over for a week and it was long enough! Can’t imagine 6 months and not even 3! If they want to stay they can pay for an apartment, this is insane
Tell her exactly what you wrote here, and if a compromise cannot be found then you just aren’t compatible.
Well you can either stay in the relationship knowing you’re going to be wasting your time or end it now
Don’t watch anime. It rots your brain.
I was with you right up until the point you responded to yourself.
Well buddy here is the deal.everyone and there brother want us to take the bi thing seriously.well ok do it but in doing that she made a choice worh you to be in a committed relationship.sex is sex and to have to get else were means something.ahe can be bisexual all she wants.but you chose to have a boyfriend or husband then just like every other single person sec with the free world is not what she chose.so I'd tell her most of the time you can't win with them cause if they dons out you don't like it then it's done hush hush and behind your back and sorry buddy that's chesting.
The one for me is the person that annoy me the least.
He said he did this despite not knowing I was gonna come back
Lie
no reason to dial down the contact if the person your attempting to cheat around is no longer around.
I agree she deserves someone who is happx for her. She and I are so close and we talk and text so much I feel I can't distance myself arbitrarily, she'll know sth's up. We are also always honest with each other and I think she at least deserves to know why I left. But I am terrified of losing someone I am so close to and who supports me, I feel like I am losing such a large part of myself and I'll be alone. I am trying to calm down before acting and I know I should distance myself but it feels so awful.
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Good for you, this shit is not acceptable.
Notice OP said they're 30 and 31 respectively, but have been together for 17 years. They are MIDDLE SCHOOL sweethearts. People are usually skeptical of high school sweethearts, and middle school sweethearts are almost unheard of. Most people don't even consider boyfriends/girlfriends from their middle school years to be real, valid dating partners…especially since middle schoolers can't really…go on dates? Not without parental help (and probably supervision) anyway. So most of us just kind of dismiss that time of our lives as awkward kids making dumb decisions.
If they sound unemotional to the point of being stunted (which I think is a good point), it could be an experience issue? I'd be very surprised if they dated anyone else, and if they did, I'd be skeptical that elementary school relationships would hold the same…value? For learning how to have a healthy adult relationship? They probably still have at least some habits and views on the relationship that formed when they were, ya know, 13/14.
“It doesn't count as cheating if it's another girl,” sounds EXACTLY like the kind of cringey garbage my friends back in middle school (or even high school) would have said.
Obviously, before someone comes at me, I'm not saying they can't have matured. But they definitely didn't build their ideas of an ideal, healthy relationship from experience. They would have needed some really great role models to demonstrate healthy relationships, or been very aware of their shortcomings and put in the work with, like, reading about what makes relationships work and stuff. And, well, gestures at original post it doesn't read that way.
Sounds like your bf has a smart head on his shoulders and is one to hang onto.
Your Dad on the other hand was looking for this disagreement. Don't listen to him. Stand up for your bf who presented a very valid, and moderate argument.
My children will always be my priority. A man who wanted me to choose something that would hurt my children is not compatible with me.
Your family sounds terrible, and somewhat similar to mine. My secret is not talking to them much and avoiding having them around my partner. Been much happier since
No, this woman got on a crowded train and wanted to argue over other people about this nonsense. NOPE. To give you a sense of how crowded a train might be: An MTA subway car can hold 42 seating, 198 standing (A car) 44 seating, 202 standing (B car). An Amtrak holds about 50-75ish people.
This girl was on a crowded train, she decided to have this argument in front of 10-20 people (minimum) who just want to go home. She's the problem.
He asked for advice, not insults. Also, how dare a man share his thoughts, let's degrade and attack his character. Cringe
Yep, like I’d only do that for a small child to tuck them in or something.
I honestly understand where OPs wife is coming from, he’s never around and she’s always stuck taking care of kids so she befriends people in the town to have a community. 2 times he’s taken the kids home and she’s gotten to let her hair down sometimes people get drunk whatever but I also know guys who always claim their girlfriends are drunk even when they’ve have like 2 glasses of wine and are completely fine to try and manipulate them. He complains about her leaving him with a fussy 2 year old does he think the kids are always automatically calm when they’re alone with mom? He’s a parent too he should deal with it. Also he sounds like the guy who offers to do all these things for his wife then gets mad when it’s not reciprocated but she didn’t ask for it it’s too much. It doesn’t even seem like she asked him to drive her. He’s telling himself he’s going to drive her and now it’s seems like she’s demanding. Like she can take a cab it’s not a train smash, she probably said she wouldn’t stay out late cause she wanted to avoid another lecture from OP but ended up having a good time
Well I feel dumb because it has never once occurred to me to keep those silica things or that they could be useful for anything. But now that you just explained this, it seems pretty obvious now. They might really come in handy. Thanks!
You described his words as very manipulative: hear my two kids. Kids, say hello to mommy. Oh, let's go meet mother-in-law. She took him to her room.
If she can't tell you that she will ignore him should she see him, then I'd say leave her to him.
Pooping without immediately flushing is disrespectful. Letting it sit for your family to smell and see is belittling.
Yeah I think they’re both doing a similar thing to each other
You aren’t wrong, it will take time for your hormones to rebalance. But also… your BF is part of the problem.
you're with someone with a history of cheating, experienced
will not leave the well-equipped and satisfying man completely.
If she passes the polygraph, you must believe that she is not cheating on you in the past or present.
make sure you have DNA done to the child
get yourself regular std tests
No pets can be compromised.
hahaha i’ve been there too, thinking I was the next virgin mary smh
He doesn't really say he won't he says he wants us to get along and work on it. I see a pattern and this is the last month I said and if there'd a fight he moves. Even if there's one any time this year he moves. He always cooks, cleans, buys me nice gifts, takes me on vacations I pick and pays, pays for all of our dates, pays rent, likes the same music, we are bother runners, same tv shows, same foods, same politics. He just has shady tactics to win any disagreement like putting me down or attacking my character which is abuse and also yelling and triggers my anxiety when he yells. I can't tolerate that. I read about narcissistic abuse. It seems he does or says something to get a reaction from me so he feels he won. Like the breaking up when he has already purchased a 6k diamond. My aunt thinks that's crazy to break up the same week unless she said he got cold feet. He broke up in an angry way though. I had a nice boyfriend for 9 years and had him move out for us to break up because he stopped working and didn't help clean or pay. It was very sad and final to have him move and for the best however I still loved him a lot and he was in many ways a great person. So the final type decisions suck. I do have to look out for my physical, emotional and mental health.
Your mom has to learn to look past the surface of people. And that your and her taste may differ. If she wants perfection for you? She's never going to be happy. Not with anyone you date or marry. Watch out for that.
If she wants happiness for you, however, there's hope! Because that is achievable, where perfection isn't. Every partnership has problems. No one is perfect.
She's also going to have to rely on her raising of you – that you will make a good partner and show good decision-making skills around who to partner up with. Hopefully, she has faith in you and can recognize that her love for you and the love you share with others can be supportive rather than judgemental. At least she raised you to value who your partner is as a person, more than just how they look and present themselves!
Okay, the fact you didn’t mean it almost makes it worse. You came at her crazy with the most hurtful thing you could think of for the sole purpose of hurting her. That was your GUT reaction.
The way you reacted, it was like she told you, I’m not having kids—ever—and that’s nonnegotiable, I don’t care what you say.
When she actually said…I don’t THINK I want kids.
You immediately throw a fit, and knowingly, on purpose, go for the lowest blow you could ever possibly give her, and called her a manipulator just like her mother, which makes me think you’ve done this to her before. Compare her to her mom. You get angry and throw her mother in her face because it is the perfect weapon to use against her.
You do whatever it is you want to do. I’ll bet that’s what he’s doing anyway.