It’s kind of weird how you’re viewing her as a “fuck toy” for another man like she didn’t consent to being in that kind of relationship and didn’t enjoy it. She obviously had some kinks she wanted to explore at that time and maybe she isn’t as into them anymore, which is why she doesn’t participate in certain things now. Or maybe she feels that some of the stuff she did was foolish and irresponsible and as a more mature and experienced adult has decided not to partake in that kind of thing anymore. I see so many posts on here of dudes complaining after they ask their partner about their wildest sexual experience or their sexual history and then act like this. I can understand being caught off guard and upset that she was with a married man, but being so put off by her doing consensual kinky sex is weird. Might be partly due to jealousy?
I wish you the very best of luck and nothing but all good happy stuff from this day forward!
And here I thought I was an elitist snob…
It’s kind of weird how you’re viewing her as a “fuck toy” for another man like she didn’t consent to being in that kind of relationship and didn’t enjoy it. She obviously had some kinks she wanted to explore at that time and maybe she isn’t as into them anymore, which is why she doesn’t participate in certain things now. Or maybe she feels that some of the stuff she did was foolish and irresponsible and as a more mature and experienced adult has decided not to partake in that kind of thing anymore. I see so many posts on here of dudes complaining after they ask their partner about their wildest sexual experience or their sexual history and then act like this. I can understand being caught off guard and upset that she was with a married man, but being so put off by her doing consensual kinky sex is weird. Might be partly due to jealousy?