I agree with other commenters. “I cannot afford this, period. No loans. No nothing. I have to keep my money focused on necessities, not frivolous spending like Christmas. I should stick behind since this seems like it’ll be a problem. Furthermore, I am in control of my finances and no one will be forcing me to contribute more than I am comfortable with.”
Based on what metric, whether or not it leads to marriage? Then most monogamous relationships fail too. Hell, I’m pretty sure the divorce rate is over 50%.
when this dog dies because of his abuse, the blood will be on both your hands— he shouldn’t even have a dog nor any kind of pet, and definitely needs therapy. though when the dog is gone i wouldn’t to stay with him either
Yes, there are so many ways you two could potentially accommodate each other. What matters is communication, trust, and making sure everyone is comfortable and no one is being pressured to do anything they don't want. First of all, what do you mean by “sex”? Do you mean “penis in vagina” penetration? How do you both stand on nakedness / hot cuddles? Massages? Touching/caressing? Mutual masturbation, or self masturbation? What are your views on porn, erotica, sex work? About polyamory, open relationships, swinging? There are plenty of ways to share both intimacy and pleasure that don't involve PiV. In the course of this discussion, you might find out that you have ways to make it work, or you could be incompatible. I'd also say that this question would be better answered in places made for allo/ace relationships (I know there are a few on Facebook). Good luck op!
I agree with other commenters. “I cannot afford this, period. No loans. No nothing. I have to keep my money focused on necessities, not frivolous spending like Christmas. I should stick behind since this seems like it’ll be a problem. Furthermore, I am in control of my finances and no one will be forcing me to contribute more than I am comfortable with.”
we started dating in the same day we met. I don't think there's an amount of dates you have to do. If you match, you match from the first day
gawd the bar for mascs is too low, this is tew much
Most polyamorous relationships fail.
Based on what metric, whether or not it leads to marriage? Then most monogamous relationships fail too. Hell, I’m pretty sure the divorce rate is over 50%.
when this dog dies because of his abuse, the blood will be on both your hands— he shouldn’t even have a dog nor any kind of pet, and definitely needs therapy. though when the dog is gone i wouldn’t to stay with him either
Yes, there are so many ways you two could potentially accommodate each other. What matters is communication, trust, and making sure everyone is comfortable and no one is being pressured to do anything they don't want. First of all, what do you mean by “sex”? Do you mean “penis in vagina” penetration? How do you both stand on nakedness / hot cuddles? Massages? Touching/caressing? Mutual masturbation, or self masturbation? What are your views on porn, erotica, sex work? About polyamory, open relationships, swinging? There are plenty of ways to share both intimacy and pleasure that don't involve PiV. In the course of this discussion, you might find out that you have ways to make it work, or you could be incompatible. I'd also say that this question would be better answered in places made for allo/ace relationships (I know there are a few on Facebook). Good luck op!
overthinking it
I don't know what drugs you're on, but has the vibe of sniffed glue.
I wish we had put up cameras…. wait we might need “security” cameras so it won't happen again.