Even if she's completely harmless, she should have been cut off as soon as he started demanding guy friends be cut off. Add in the way he sneaks around and you should probably just bail for the peace of mind.
Is there something else going on that’s bothering your wife? She sounds upset at life in general and is taking it out on you. Is she blaming you for anything?
Have you tried therapy? You need to discuss healthy conflict resolution skills.
If she won’t talk or won’t agree to therapy, then you’ll need to have the blunt talk about divorcing her. That might get through to her that this is serious.
You shouldn't be dealing with brutality about your looks in a relationship full stop.
I'm sorry OP but this is like if you posted something like “how do you deal with fresh chicken shit all over your living room” most people are going to respond with the obvious stop allowing chickens in your house.
Why? You should both just be single while she’s traveling. So much less anxiety
Even if she's completely harmless, she should have been cut off as soon as he started demanding guy friends be cut off. Add in the way he sneaks around and you should probably just bail for the peace of mind.
Is there something else going on that’s bothering your wife? She sounds upset at life in general and is taking it out on you. Is she blaming you for anything?
Have you tried therapy? You need to discuss healthy conflict resolution skills.
If she won’t talk or won’t agree to therapy, then you’ll need to have the blunt talk about divorcing her. That might get through to her that this is serious.
You shouldn't be dealing with brutality about your looks in a relationship full stop.
I'm sorry OP but this is like if you posted something like “how do you deal with fresh chicken shit all over your living room” most people are going to respond with the obvious stop allowing chickens in your house.
Yeah I mean if course. That’s usually my first instinct, but like… how do you start that conversation? lol