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Date: October 7, 2022
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Do people have happy marriages without sex? Sure, some do. Can you? It really depends on the kind of people you and your partner are, and what you each want out of this relationship.
I think it’s interesting here that you describe yourself as not being ‘romantically’ attracted to your wife anymore, but you do say you think she’s an amazing wife and mother. Do you still enjoy spending time with her? If you ignore the sex issue, are you happy and content in your relationship, and do you feel the two of you have a close and intimate connection?
If so, I wonder if maybe you are ‘romantically’ attracted to your wife, you’re just not sexually attracted to her. For many people, those two things come together (no pun intended), but not for all. And if you are happy, and don’t feel like anything is ‘missing’ without sex in your relationship, is there really a problem?
On the other hand, if you do feel something is missing, maybe it’s time to reassess and start by having a discussion with your wife? You don’t mention her feelings about all this here, although you did say she asked about sex. Maybe this is as much on her mind as yours?
Meaning your dad doesn't start conversations with him? Or completely ignores your boyfriend when he talks?
Same here not to mention the stress a dog going through a facility and new place and with aggression that has gotten so severe so many times 100% something will happen
Consider it the amount you had to pay to find out she isn’t the one. Break it off because she is untrustworthy and you can’t buy trust.
We don't know what he said to imply that or which bit he isn't ok with. And I don't think it's assumed at all that marriage is the end goal, especially considering he explicitly said he didn't want to get married. You can be in a committed relationship without marriage.
It rather sounds like your wife may already have somebody particular in mind that she wants to sleep with or may already be involved with to some degree. That may be why she's reacting so badly to it being called cheating because she doesn't want to admit to herself that she's already crossed that line.
Therapy. It will help you figure out why you’re settling for less than you deserve, and how to start prioritizing your own needs. A lot of us go through this as young adults. You can learn from this
Lol not every two minutes
Yeah, it’s bad. You’re justified in leaving. Your responsibility right now is to protect yourself and get out. Your wife will take care of herself, she’s not your concern right now. If she tries to convince you otherwise, please ignore her.
She’s looking out for herself, and you’re looking out for her too. But no one is taking care of you right now, and that is an important thing that you can fix! Please start taking care of yourself!
Having your own needs and desires does not make you a bad person. Protecting yourself doesn’t make you a bad person. The people who convince you that their needs and desires matter more than yours are bad people. They don’t care about you, and you need to stop caring about them.
It's the middle of the school year for my kids, and that would devistate them. If they weren't in school, I'd pack them up and we'd all take a trip back home to see my parents.
HA! I know how this story ends. He wants forgiveness for himself. So HE looks good. So HE can look himself in the mirror. He compared your mother and father in his head and saw you had it better having contact with your father instead of mother and HE wants to achieve that now through YOU. He wants to be the bigger man, the one worth forgiving, better then Mom , become this “out of hardship to success” story.
It's just part of his therapy. For selfish reasons. For optics. IT'S NOT REAL. It's not what YOU want.
His real behaviour reared it's head at the funeral. He doesn't RESPECT you. He never will because it doesn't benefit HIM. His family, his suffering, all 100% a CHOICE and on him. He wants respectability for HIS family, not you, not yours. He wants to problem delegate and manage. Not Your Circus, Not Your Monkeys.
DON'T. ANSWER. Spam folder-Delete. Like your SO said. No need to bring his toxicity into your life. It didn't change. They never, ever do.
Mark My Words: If you answer in a negative way. In a way that doesn't complete exonerate him and paint him as the best bro ever with your mom as the ultimate villain, he WILL burn you. He'll use your words against you. HE needs the good karma because he knows he doesn't deserve it. Happens all the time.
Best you can do in this position: He doesn't exist. Carry On (my Wayward son). Live a good, healthy and long life with the ones you love and love you. ?
Victim blaming at its finest.