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LovelyEmmaa Public Chat Channel
Date: November 7, 2022
AmateurPub
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LovelyEmmaa Public Chat Channel
We’ve had no issues prior. He’s always been a good partner. Everything you said is so accurate. I cant remember what the rest of the conversation exchange was, once I saw that I think my brain shut off.
Also, I’ve been working since I was 14, and everytime I had the opportunity I would hop from job to job. I just wanna stay in one place
This is extremely common. Don’t feel guilty. You didn’t sign up for this expecting to be her caretaker for all eternity
That's not really how controlling, jealous people work. They'd jump at the chance to have more control/eyes on their partner.
The simple answer is no, it is highly unlikely that you will be able to come back from this. When couples get to the point where they have lost respect for each other and only have feelings of contempt, they can rarely get back to having a loving and healthy relationship.
Questions for you:
Did you at one point have a happy and healthy relationship – or was it always something that was “just around the corner” but not quite there? Did you ever have good communication between you where you could problem solve together? Or were your problems just simpler or easier to avoid? Did your wife's personality shift suddenly at some point or just continue to gradually degrade? Other than having a child, is there anything particularly stressful going on in your life right now? Is there a family member that both of you respect that you could sit down with and talk through some things so that your wife doesn't just should “shut up” the whole time?
Honestly though, the fact that the channels of communication have completely shut down on both sides – with her saying only “shut up” and you refusing to talk to her – it sounds like this is a death knell in your marriage. If both of you aren't willing to work on the marriage, then it is pretty much over. And I imagine that things will be pretty tough on your son, more than anyone. If you are worried for the health and safety of your son, you might want to start involving your in-laws and/or your parents in this discussion sooner than later. You'll need some support and help.
I also hate to bring this up, but if she has only nasty things to say to you, she may have someone else that she is showing her nice side to.
Best of luck to you.
I'm just going to say that someone who lies and hides things is doing so for a reason and unless it's a birthday present or something, it's never for a benign or pleasant reason.
If he was over her and invested in your relationship, he would have wished her well in life and that would have been that.