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Date: October 13, 2022
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Thank you for writing this out for me. Can I ask you a few questions?
In almost 10 years that I've been dating, I've barely experienced real sexual compatibility. Without going into much detail, I'm more on the submissive side and every single one of my partners has also been primarily submissive. There's always been some overlap and in most cases we managed to find pretty solid middle ground, but sooner or later it still became a source of disappointment and FOMO – always for me, sometimes for them.
So, how did you work through it, personally? Were you aware of these incompatibilities when you two got together? Was it difficult for you to accept? What was on the other side of the scales that convinced you to stay by your partner despite these differences?
As much as I dislike Mark Manson, I keep returning to that part in his first book where he talks about choices. Something along the lines that it's not about chasing a life that is entirely devoid of problems, but rather choosing which set of problems I'm able and willing to deal with. Sadly it seems I'm still doing the former.
Huh? What is a “self harm accomplice”? Why would you even think that's a thing?
Why his marriage ended isn’t for me to post live as is not my story to tell. But it wasn’t infidelity on his part. I am steadily building back my trust in him and I do think keeping Jill around while she’s besties with OW is bad for me overall
You’re so young. He’s not the love of your life. He’s a man child and you should drop the dead weight to secure your future happiness. Ppl are finding partners older these days because there’s less pressure and need to get married young. Meaning that when the brain fully develops after 25 you are probably on the same level with the person you choose then and will have a more successful relationship. You are still maturing and growing up and sometimes ppl who get together young grow into very different ppl
Relationship requires trust and communication. If you don't trust her, either:
Break up with her OR; Get therapy
That's the only two options.
Probably just isn't as turned on as he wants you to believe.
Being smart and intelligent are VERY different things. I'm a US Citizen living in Europe and I wouldn't dream of “correcting” someone for pronouncing something different than I did. (What entitlement and ignorance and disrespect for others!!!)
Language evolves and grows and changes… so as someone from the States this ESPECIALLY aggravates me; so many people Stateside think they're right (bEcuZ TheRe iS No OtHEr Way BUt ThEiRS!), but most have such extremely limited experience in other countries and the current geopolitical situation makes it “Ok” for people to be absolute idiots, both literally and figuratively.
My advice as someone around his age? Dump him. I'd never put up with that crap. His pretentiousness is disgusting and he sounds like a dolt.
Don't subject yourself to another American Idiot. I left nearly a decade ago for a very good reason.
Best, OP.