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Op there’s not much you can do in this situation. Unless you’re only going to see your best friend at your house. The problem is your boyfriends never going to get over the fact that you slept with your best friends brother. He may not see it as cheating and just not be comfortable with the fact that he won’t know if you aren’t meeting up with your sneaky link and using your best friend as an excuse. That’s going to just always be there. That’s a insecurity he has and there is no way for you to get around it. Either break up or change how you see your friend. Ultimately that’s your call. But personally I would stop messing with the brother after just to make any future relationships not so complicated. But again that’s your call.
Nah. She told you something to make things easier and more amicable. It sucks and it feels bad but you guys aren’t together. Divorces suck, people heal and move on differently. One blessing I found was that it helps you move on quicker when someone does that to you. Keep your head up!
You aren't making the time. But it gets easier, children grow up fast.
Wow, a 15 month old and a 3 year old… come on – you are both running an exclusive restaurant for two of the fussiest and most difficult customers in the world, and they never leave.
Your work hours are of course shutting down most random activity. I can relate to that.
No details required, but when was the last time you dressed up – like the full hot-girl make up and cheeky hold-ups and push-up bra and all the things men lose their minds over?
I don't mean to be crude but men are shallow, mostly, and a surprise steak and blow-job night when you have arranged babysitting for the little ones might be a cool thing to do.
Even if it doesn't end in sex, it's a radical thing for a woman to remind their man just how awesome they are, and how your persona is not now default “mom-mode” but that you are also a wicked good lover, and you need to express your sexuality.
Intimidate him with your awesomeness and elegant ways. He might have forgotten them.
And maybe you can then arrange something regular, where you can take a break from that stressful restaurant life, and just hook up, like it's an affair. Make it fun. Get away from the home/restaurant for a bit. Go someplace where nobody knows either of you.
Make it sexy, and the rest will happen naturally.
Tell your wife you aren't Joe Biden and it's creepy.
Sounds like she's making a shadow of yourself. Don't allow it, it's the biggest thing you'll regret. Trust me.
Just know that if you stay with this dickwad you are teaching her to put her man's needs, and well everyone else's needs, before her own. Your relationship with your partner is her first example of a romantic dynamic. Think about what you are teaching her. And think about the rest of your life. Are YOU ok to put up with this behavior for the rest of your life? I would never marry such a selfish person. He couldn't even be bothered to help out with household duties while you were sick. Imagine this being your life forever and hopefully make the right decision.
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She’s your Mom so you know her. That being said what are her interests? Find a group/club that shares what she likes. Push her to join. Get her out in the world to explore. Send her on trips and new adventures. Get her some therapy. Explain to her that you have your own life and she needs to have one of her own. Get her a job or volunteering. She’s alone and lost so help her find her way forward or get someone who can. I understand the stress and intrusion so think of everything you can to move her in a different and new direction.
Dude, you got drunk, tried to get some rebound booty from one of your friends,
This is so ridiculous. This isn't that serious an issue, I just wanted to hear what others say.
I can’t believe the OP is asking if this is normal?
Hunni, it’s cheating! Anyone telling you it’s not cheating it’s either doing it themselves or they are lying to make you feel better.
Well that's one load off, at least you don't have the guilt of being the other woman.
Worst case scenario, he says he wants nothing to do with little one, and you continue as you are now.
Best case scenario, your kid gets another person who loves them (as well as a half-sibling and a Stepmom), and if he pays child support, you get some extra money to help with the not-inconsiderable cost of raising a child.
Imagine the guilt you'll feel when your kid starts asking questions later in life and you either lie to them or say “I know exactly who he is, but I never gave him the chance to know you because I hid you like a dirty secret”.
I imagine it's very anxiety inducing, but you're a mom, and you can do this! For your baby. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope the end result is positive x
Get your own unopened drinks yourself. If you both drink the same drinks swap them when she's not looking and see what happens
Look, I am probably just infected from reading so much Reddit, is there a possibility he is actually an AP? Either way, use all the evidence and report him to his supervisor for stalking.
Honestly – its none of his business.
BUT hes always going to wonder so I'd just put it out there and if hes not comfortable then hes got a decision to make.
Its a shitty situation but if he thinks that you are somehow tainted because you had a little fun while single then you need to bounce anyways. You dont deserve to be in a relationship like that.
My gf told me about a 1 night stand she had 2 years before she ever met me and my heart sunk. The thought of her ever being with another man destroyed me. I had to do some soul searching.
She had heard me joke about all my fun in the past and told me it bithered her hearing about it so I told her to share a story. No matter how much of a dog I had been before – shit still hurt to hear that the person you think is gods gift to earth had her moments too.
Now I just laugh but I had to change my thought process about it. Its never easy hearing about any of that stuff.
I’d much rather get a gift that showed he was listening to me (knew my favourite show and that I can’t stream it anymore) than generic jewelry.
Your gift is great, don’t second guess it. The thought truly does matter most and it’s clear you put thought into this.
Your wife has probably regularly received attention from men over the last 20 years, and yet still put you and her kids first. “Not thinking of the consequences” is bullshit.
You chose to use the word “force.”
This dude does not need to be your husband. He needs to be your ex-husband. We're just strangers on the internet confirming what you already feel.
She kicked you out of the house over taking a piss in the shower? I feel millions if not billions of people have done this at some point. Unless you’re pissing all over the walls or something and being unsanitary, I would ask her if there’s something else that’s bothering her that she would like to discuss since that seems like a wild overreaction.
They don't like each other enough to be in a committed relationship so he doesn't really have a right to be pissed about it.
If you had sex and their boundary was sex with no one else then he could have an issue with her. You guys only had a kiss though.
All that being said, he might feel territorial and react badly anyway. However, I don't think you done anything wrong.
can you specify why?
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This happened like 30 mins ago. He literally said nothing and came and sat beside me like it’s nothing.
Yes, he's cheating. Get tested for STDs.
Man I feel bad for your boyfriend seems like loyalty is hard to come by nowadays
I'm gonna be real with you, based on all the furries I've known personally… I'd just let him go. Sounds like he's already worked his way towards the obnoxious, dramatic end of the spectrum of furries. He's just gonna get more annoying the deeper into the culture he gets. I could be wrong, but I used to make furry art to pay my way through college, and my god can they be hard to deal with.
Sounds like he's taking furry pretty seriously, and if you take any fetish/hobby/porn preference THAT seriously, there's nowhere to go but down.
What happens in Veg-ass, stays in Veg-ass type of weekend? 🙂
See the thing is that she come over b4. This is more about me being asleep than the dnd. I feel u tho
if she can't say no, she can't say yes
So you're dating a friend who guilts you into sex. Not a good friend or partner.
She is out of love for you and cheated, no. Talk to a lawyer and get tested for STDs!
It's never going to get better. The only way your child has a hope of a happy life is if you walk away, now.
Holy crap. Tbh you’re very scary, if I was him I would’ve called the cops. What are you doing? Why would you show up to someone’s house repeatedly after they’ve asked you not to? Do you understand that this is very scary and intimidating behavior? I think it would be best if you left him alone, you’re not a safe person to be around right now. Get a lot of therapy and perspective before you approach another person to date.
Makes sense.
Hmm the automod is kind of agressive? I’ve been hesitant to bring this up to their family cause she’s been given responsibility to take care of her cousin, she was a village girl so when she came here she became unhinged so my gf gets blamed for it alot, does help that they’re extremely religious so them knowing her past habits would backfire on her so I’ve been hesitant to approach them but during sepsis shock I drag her out and forced her parents hands into cuz she felt “guilty” to make their parents worry for her :/
She can make friends very easily, shes extremely extroverted and fun (my opposite, being an avid introvert) friends isnt really an issue to find but she had at one point of her life went through some harrowing betrayal with her old friends that led her to become attached to her bad friends.. she’s done things in her past but shes trying to leave them albeit struggling
You cared nothing about him when you cheated with your affair partner.
you reduce your ownership all thru your post. he has checked out of the relationship and now your mad at him for things not going back to the way things were.
They will never go back to the way it was. you broke that.
you and him both need counseling to move forward and it a gamble on the outcome.
U cook make all of that by scratch I mean WOW!! ?????
Setting up an expensive hobby that’s time intensive either leads to you neglecting the hobby (in this case, living creatures), or neglecting your household.
I think your wife is rightfully concerned about the equitable division of labor and perhaps you need a more realistic view of what life with a baby is. It’s a 24/7 job on top of everything you’re already doing. And if most of that falls on your wife, you’re being a shitty parent and partner.
I have been in this situation and this is EXACTLY what it was. I was with a guy who I didn't love how he treated me after I had a surgery. I had been having sex with him all along and that was the best part of our relationship. I asked him if we could pause for a bit, I grew up religious and thought hmm maybe this will help. He flipped an absolute shit about it. We made it another few tumultuous weeks. I was fully trying to find myself and really be treated better and instead of just dumping him held on because a part of me did love him despite his shitty attitude.
As someone who was told on her own that my father listed on my birth certificate is not my biological parent, I can relate a bit to her. My mother and step-father sat me down sans any of my siblings or any emotional support for me to tell me she had an affair with her current husband while she was married to me dad. I thought my dad hated me after finding out. He adopted my mother’s first two children when they married. My other sibling is obviously his-brother looks just like him. Me, well I don’t look like anyone on any side of my family.
I pushed everyone away and hated myself among other things. I still don’t talk about it to any family members. I don’t want to be blood related to my step-father.
My advice is to let her come to you when and if she’s ready. That may be never and you have ti be okay with that. She has just had her whole belief system on who she is and where she came from disrupted. She needs time to process that on her own. She owes you nothing in this matter right now. No amount of apologies or explanations are going to make her feel better.
He's lying. He has tinder on his phone and is actively using it. He's cheating.
Apply for the school that is right for you. Reality is this relationship likely won't last and you'll regret not going to the school you want
You're making yourself stressed. By giving into her tantrums you're teaching her they work. Tell her straight up NO… I want to spend time with you but i cannot do this.
Accept she will be grumpy and don't give in.
I can understand missing your partner but if mine was super busy I'd compromise and go do stuff with him like his errands or watch him practice etc.
You want to be with this girl you have to stop giving in to her demands so she can learn to compromise and help relieve the stress you feel not add to it.
Everyone on her seems to blame all there mental illnesses and health problems on why they are shit partners. So many great people get medication or therapy and online amazing lives. Sounds like you are not one of those people. Take a step back realize that just because you have problems doesn’t mean you get to have it any easier then the rest of us.
My advice is to start moving on because he seems to already have made his choice. Sleeping until noon everyday and stay up all night because of xyz reason isn’t healthy for any relationship.
Stop using your problems as a crutch and get help. That way I’m your next relationship you can actually contribute
I might just do that plus he hasn’t taken her anywhere in a little over a month now and likely won’t for awhile longer due to her entering the separation anxiety stage of life I just wish I could explain to him why I want to know so badly without sounding insane
Or:
Why do you even go, where he feels your children aren't welcome?
That's disloyal..
Your bf made a decision, obviously the right one, to go LC/NC wit his parents. As his partner you should respect his decision. Doesn’t matter the reasoning and if you think it’s valid or not. You basically told him he was wrong, and for some reason you think you’ll be the one to fix a problem that has existed for years. That is pretty high opinion of yourself and your abilities to right whatever wrongs his parents did.
However long he needs is how long he needs. You cant push it. As long as you apologize, tell him you were wrong, you’ll would never push him to have contact again that you respect his decision and boundaries, and that you will wait until he is ready to discuss the situation you will give him space that is all you can do.
Is there a bedroom that doesn't share walls with them? Is it loud because they're like screaming, or is their bed just loud?
White noise machine, ear plugs, move your bed to the farthest side of the room if it isn't already, getting a bed tent would add another layer to help block noise.
I am planning on telling her, but I also want to make sure there's someone there for her.
I have the conversation screenshoted alongside with the picture
I hope it’s this
I hope it’s this
I’ve been where you are. Run. Leave. Block him.
Hey love just want to say people commonly choose to have children around early 30s to late 30s as their internal timer usually fades by then
You’re quite a few years younger than him, he’s around the age where kids is a consideration so although he might not have realized until now, it’s around the point
However do keep in mind YOURE not that age. In fact I’d argue you definitely shouldn’t keep it if you don’t think you’re ready. I’m 23 and I can’t even imagine having a kid right now.
There will be a better time to have children, you’re not ready right now so you shouldn’t keep it if it’s not something you want
You just got married and its suppose to be the Honey moon period of your lives together. RUN to the court house and see if you can get the marriage annulled due to infidelity. Have her explain everything to her friends/family to see if she's remorseful. If not then you need to spread the word on why your leaving before she changes the narrative.
You just got married and its suppose to be the Honey moon period of your lives together. RUN to the court house and see if you can get the marriage annulled due to infidelity. Have her explain everything to her friends/family to see if she's remorseful. If not then you need to spread the word on why your leaving before she changes the narrative.
Can't change the past. All you can do is either get over it or break up. Maybe start by figuring out why it bothers you so much.
Question: why do you put up with what is a obviously a terrible person? Don’t worry about fixing him, what you need to do is to get counseling for yourself to understand why you accept this treatment. This is not normal at all. You know that. Get help for yourself.
Break up with him and find someone who doesn't think behavior like this is appropriate.
He is hurting you. This will cause you self esteem issues and trust issues.
You have talked to him about how you feel and he doesn't care.
If you wouldn't treat him this way why should you accept it from him?
Break up with him. I imagine that part of his problem is his ego can't handle being financially supported by you which speaks poorly of him. You can do better than this AH.
oh thats maybe the reason. we did missionary
Are either of you religious at all anymore? I mean I guess I get it if he believes he'll be offending a god by claiming to be Muslim. For me, lying was annoying but easy because my beliefs are more “if there is a god at all, any god I'd care to believe in wouldn't be judging me for keeping the peace”.
In a totally different story – I fully expect my BF's family to have a naked time adapting to me. About a year in, he warned me about how extremely racist his parents are. I told him that if he fears he might be disowned for dating me, we should stop. We're almost at 4 years now. I've taken a class on his family's culture, and even a couple Cantonese classes. It is the hardest language I've ever come across, and I study new languages for fun. I have yet to meet his parents (they online in China) so I have no idea if my work will pay off, or if they'll hate me on site. My bf and I plan to work through it together, either way. My point is – a dedicated partner should value your relationship with your family, and be willing to put in effort to help you maintain that connection.
Why does it matter if they're not actually related?