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Date: November 19, 2022
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Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for abusers to reveal themselves once their partner becomes pregnant. The best thing you can do is start making a plan to leave. I know it's hot and scary. If you can ask for help, please do. Larger companies often have people that help with these situations.
Don't do that to people. USE YOUR WORDS LIKE A GROWN UP.
Ok, but why? It seems like this is a “you” issue rather than a “her” issue. Why is it an issue for you? What is the problem it creates?
I get that the lie is the problem, but why did he feel like he had to lie?
He already came clean to you about it. That tells me he was feeling some kind of guilt about lying in the first place otherwise why tell you anything at all.
As far as the bf sharing a room with a girl, you do deserve to know, and he told you, he just passed it with a lie.
Why did he lie?
When you say you don't think any girl out there that would be happy with. Idk if happy is the right way to frame that argument. I doubt anyone is going to be particularly happy that their partner is staying with a memver of the opposite sex, but will they understand or be okay with it?
The answer is yes. My wife is fine with my female friends coming on trips she doesn't go on and I have never felt the need to lie to her about why they were there. We trust each other. Same if male friends join her trips.
At the end of the day, why did he feel the need to lie in the first place. Has he done anything in your relationship that would make you feel uncomfortable with him being with another woman without you?
So why don't you take photos of you and her together? Then send her the photo. Seems odd for you to want her to have photos of you but you don't want photos of her.
Because we fell crazy in love, and didn't acted rationally.
And again. Sure, but he's a parent, and usually people who are responsible don't just change their whole life from one day to the other.
It all just went so quick.
It's really sad how you can't see the huge red flag your bf was waving there.
Also he had a very bad relationship with his ex, I don't think he ever wanted to have kids but he got manipulated. S
So has he been in therapy? How is this a reason to rush into living together with a youngster he barely knew? If he's not interested in parenting, why didn't he terminate his rights?
But now they are having a better relationship again and he feels he is obligated to take care of them now when she needs help.
Most people with a healthy amount of experience would have taken 20 steps back, and would have NOT rushed the relationship. Srsly, the best you can do is give your bf 30 days notice to move out, and figure out how he handles his family situation.
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You should not have no way out or in your own living place. And your father doesnt sound like a good option anyway.
He’s in love with you.
We clearly read two different posts.
LMAO! Your husband is a p#$$y who wants a woman he can control. You've outgrown him! File for divorce.
Anal it is then…. thanks ?
He had the balls to ask you to open the relationship. You need to have the balls to tell him: no, I think this was a wonderful idea of yours!
But I’m all seriousness I would start planning for a potential divorce
That's my question. Neither one of my best friends would even consider “flirting” with my husband, like you said your best friend did, much less actually sleeping with it even eating to sleep with. The fact that she was flirting to begin with should make you wonder.
Yes. The minute he made those demands. His behavior is not normal. You deserve better.