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Date: October 30, 2022
If what you’ve said is an accurate depiction of the interaction than it sounds like she is completely unwilling to try and empathize with what you’re feeling. You’ve also explained to her in the past that you don’t like being left in the dark, and she still refuses to try to understand that or make a change to keep you in the loop.
The solution to pretty much every problem is communication. You can’t fix problems with someone who refuses to communicate effectively. 1) she ignored you saying you don’t like being left in the dark in the past, 2) she won’t explain to you what the joke is and it IS a weird “inside joke” imo that does require explanation, and 3) she resorted to named calling when you tried to express that you’re upset. She sounds like a jerk who doesn’t care what you’re feeling.
Forgiveness on your part I won't pass judgement on as you either believe you can make things work, or can't.
Has he been actually going to the therapy do you know, or just saying he is?
The Privacy screen is absolute garbage – we all know why he's got it and it isn't work. What work does he do? Why'd it require a privacy screen on his personal phone?
Most workplaces if you have any form of sensitive info etc you'll be provided a work phone and nobody not even the damn secret service will have privacy screens on their phones I would wager – if you're in an environment where it's so insecure you'd need a screen protector you wouldn't even have your phone out.
His comment on “this is why I got privacy screen” regarding the coat is either a really bad joke or it's him being more honest than he has been throughout your relationship on his integrity – i.e he's got it so you can't see what he's doing.
I don’t think he actually hates you though he may tell himself that and now you. He’s emotionally distanced himself for what he believes is his own protection. The idea of waiting for you to die and then moving on is inconceivable to him. He’s moved on already. He’s set the plan in motion for his life after you’re gone. To him your continued living is just delaying the inevitable. He’s steeled himself for the future and you’re keeping him in the past and present.
I don’t say this to excuse his actions, rather just to explain them. He certainly could have taken the other route and tried his best to make your last days together happy ones.
I wish I had a quick easy solution. None of your choices are good ones. I guess your only real consideration would be to spend as much time with your daughter as possible so that when you’re gone she will always have you in her heart. I wish you all the peace and contentment you can find.
Does he do other things to control you?
Honestly I don't say this often and I don't say this lightly, but I think your gf might be a bit sexist. This is the kind of crap that I used to hear from the “girls rule, boys drool” type in Middle School. She's deflecting because she doesn't want to tell you the real reason that she thinks Mays comments are okay and yours aren't, because she knows it would start a larger argument that could end your relationship.
Be upfront with her about what you’re feeling. Tell her you’re feeling insecure about your relationship because you work long hours and would like to spend more time with her and the kids. Tell her you’re uncomfortable about your kid calling another man “dada” because you feel like you’re being displaced in your own family.
Don’t accuse her of anything because that will just make her defensive and less likely to see your side. Focus on how you’re feeling and what you’d like the both of you to do to work on the situation. Frame it as a problem that you both work towards resolving and look for things that both of you can do to improve your relationship.
I’m sorry what? She’s a SAHM but doesn’t even do basic childcare.
I would try to get evidence for the eventual and nasty divorce/custody.
She isn’t stable for whatever reason. Her irritability could very easily morph into verbal or physical abuse of either you or your son if it continues to escalate. Protect yourself and your kid.