Well, it is a “get over it” situation, but it's never that easy. It's something that would probably require time, space, and therapy. For their relationship to continue she has to get over it in her own way.
And probably part of what’s going on with ton is you self depreciation and low self esteem.
Are these feelings inappropriate? Yes, for sure. But you’ve had enough insight and self control to not act like them and seek advice. You’re not a bad person. Don’t be ashamed. Just understand it’s not right and move on. Leave them both alone. I’d recommended a therapist to understand these compulsive feelings and why you can seem to control them or your thoughts about her.
The important thing is you acted responsibly and kept this all to yourself and don’t burden this young girl with them or get mixed up in a situation that would surely just end with pain to both her and her sister.
Good lord your post history! Break up with this dude. I can’t figure out why you’re staying with him unless you enjoy this shitty treatment.
I think your insecurity is showing, sweety. If she'd get very hot herself, I'd understand your anger, but her just being there? You're overreacting
Well, it is a “get over it” situation, but it's never that easy. It's something that would probably require time, space, and therapy. For their relationship to continue she has to get over it in her own way.
No one is offended.
And probably part of what’s going on with ton is you self depreciation and low self esteem.
Are these feelings inappropriate? Yes, for sure. But you’ve had enough insight and self control to not act like them and seek advice. You’re not a bad person. Don’t be ashamed. Just understand it’s not right and move on. Leave them both alone. I’d recommended a therapist to understand these compulsive feelings and why you can seem to control them or your thoughts about her.
The important thing is you acted responsibly and kept this all to yourself and don’t burden this young girl with them or get mixed up in a situation that would surely just end with pain to both her and her sister.
Hell no You Made the right decision
This. OP's friend obviously has a problem, a mental health issue, that needs therapy.
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