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⚡, PUSSY PARTY ⚡ | lovense patterns ⚡ 3–15–22–33 -44⚡ [30 tokens remaining]
Date: November 15, 2022
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⚡, PUSSY PARTY ⚡ | lovense patterns ⚡ 3–15–22–33 -44⚡ [30 tokens remaining]
Um. Ok, first of all, without any details about what the problems are, there is no way to offer meaningful advice except that you have to communicate.
Relationships are work. Often a lot of work. Even great relationships take consisten, intentional work to remain healthy. Effective communication is a huge aspect to that. Discussing problems you have with your partner and learning ways to compromise or adapt are huge. That doesn’t mean you dump your shit on your partner for every little quirk. We aren’t aiming to tear our partner down, but express real concerns about our own needs and boundaries and understand those of our partner.
As to the craving sex thing: it sounds like you’re not ready to be in a relationship. Craving meaningless sex with strangers isn’t, in and of itself, a bad thing. (Well, it depends on what you mean by “crave”.) But if it’s going to prevent you from being all-in in your relationship or lead you to breaking your partner’s trust through infidelity it becomes a huge problem.
It sounds like, as awesome as your gf is, she isn’t the one who’s meeting your needs. You’re so concerned with being alone that you’re settling. You deserve better than that. Hell, your gf deserves better than that. It sounds like you’ve got some work to do on yourself and your views on what relationships are and are not.
Please discuss this with your partner and perhaps decide that you need a break so you can figure yourself out. Don’t string her along when you know you’re not happy in the relationship. That’s unkind.
It’s not about the money? I don’t feel entitled to anything but it’s odd behavior for you SO to be so involved with going over the top for another woman.
Grow up! People says things when stressed they don’t mean literally. You saying if felt like it was a life or death situation was a little bit of a hyperbole and she reacted with a hyperbole of her own.
we would like to get another child in a year or two
I'm sorry, but I had a good chuckle at that wording.
We have talked about it, nothing has changed
And what was said during this talk?
You’re the bad guy for doing all that you’ve done for her, not out of friendship, but as a way to stay close until she realized she wanted to date you.
She didn’t betray you when she slept with someone else. You had exactly no right to have expected sexual fidelity with her.
You’re mad at her for lying, but you weren’t honest, either: you didn’t tell her you were only hanging around to get your shot.
Timeline needs one more entry. Moved out and broke up in March.
bingo