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Date: October 29, 2022
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Sounds like it was likely she got pregnant before this, unless that was a very premature baby.
That being said, if you don't want to be with her and don't want to raise the baby yourself it seems like the issue is that she gives it up for adoption. You're not even sure that it's yours and you don't seem keen on finding out.
It seems like you're looking for a reason to tie her to you–if you wanted to just have your child you would have gone to the hospital by now IMO
I think you need to end the relationship. It is absolutely unfair that you're not only unwilling to participate in sexual activities but you're also stopping him from doing anything as well.
Yes, you are excusing your behavior. She cheats, she's a cheater. You cheat, and it's just a “relapse” with 37 excuses following.
Man up, own your shit, and have a face to face conversation with this woman about what you both expect from this relationship, and what the plan is if this is your baby… and if it isn't.
nope that's not correct – Law is a male dominated field – there are two forms of domination in the professions, numerical and power. Men occupy the positions of power (also in many numerically female dominated fields such as librarianship). Architecture is similar – most UGs are women, but most practicing architects are male – hence it's male dominated.
Is it possible he didn’t realize they are a men’s design and bought it for you or another woman?
The problem is probably him. Not you. I'm gonna guess he's been an AH and she has reasons not to trust him. You being a foreigner (people normally see foreign people as exotic) and younger might “trigger” her. You did what you thought you should do. You apologize. Don't do anything else. Let them deal with the situation the way they see best. Not your problem.
Also don't be so trusting. You see him as older brother, he might see you very differently. Be careful with drinking around people, the ones you know for long periods of time and the ones you barely know. Unfortunately, women need to be always watchful.
I would definitely be done with her. 7 months is usually still the honeymoon phase where people are on their best behavior. So if this is her at her best? I'd hate to see her worst. Definitely not normal or ok to talk about a work crush in front of you, while in a relationship and extra bad she has pics! I'm sorry she did that to you. You deserve better Op.
I would definitely be done with her. 7 months is usually still the honeymoon phase where people are on their best behavior. So if this is her at her best? I'd hate to see her worst. Definitely not normal or ok to talk about a work crush in front of you, while in a relationship and extra bad she has pics! I'm sorry she did that to you. You deserve better Op.
Sex free for you, more likely.
This would only happen if they shared the same Apple ID. That would make sense to do with kids’ iPads so mom could track what the kids are doing. It would make no sense whatsoever in the case of two independent adults. All of BF’s texts would show up on mom’s phone and vice versa.
It is possible they have air drop turned on and the photos somehow shared themselves. But even then, most sons would say ew mom I don’t need your nudes and delete them.
Drop him. He is an abusive asshole. Thank your lucky stars he showed this side of him before he trapped you into living together or marriage.
Get yourself someone who respects you. He sounds like a terrible liar.
Does she believe homosexuality is a sin? Imagine your kid knowing their mom thinks they are a sinner. Trust me when I say the fights you’re going to have about religion are not worth it.
Sometimes people's fight, flight and freeze response actives. Unfortunately freeze is very common.
That doesn't mean he doesn't want the perks. Your attention, time, energy, things like that are perks maybe a slight ego boost if you aren't over him. But it doesn't mat, you should tell him to leave you alone and that's it
Why?
But you aren’t tired of taking care of a man child. You’ve been doing it for four years and four years of it hasn’t caused you to walk away. As long as you tolerate it, you’re not tired enough of it. He has no incentive to change, and he doesn’t want to change. You’re not responsible for his behavior, but you are responsible for the choice to stay in this relationship.
When it feels like you life is falling apart grabbing hold of an anchor ⚓️ to reality is terrifying. I can't blame OP I pray that I or anyone else here has to go through this.
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During your therapy appointment I would approach this and ask your therapist to help you establish what your boundaries are and how to follow through. Personally, I would have a parenting class as a non negotiable. You two are not a united front which you know, and a class may help get you on the same page as it will most likely be a compromise of how you each want to parent. I would also have marriage counseling as a non negotiable as he is using his anger issues as an excuse to ignore you. I also can be quick to anger, and know I need to step back in those moments before I speak. But it’s not days. Maybe an hour max?
You need to ask yourself, is this the relationship you want your son to have as an example? Would you want him treating someone the way your husband does?