Why is a 31 year old choosing to leech off his girlfriend? It's great that he loves to learn. So why can't he learn a trade or train for a career so he can contribute and be a partner in your relationship instead of a dependent?
You are not compatible because you are a functioning adult contributing to society and he is a pseudo-intellectual hobosexual mooching off of you.
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But if she thinks he has bad intentions then she's still putting herself in a bad situation whether they stay together or not. Sounds like she's using this guy to get a free vacation to see her family. So they're both looking to use each other. What could go wrong ?
This… A good friend got her house at 23 and now 10 years later they are still somehow surprised and injured that a single woman has a house. People are stupid….
This is an open relationship not poly, and you’re the girlfriend not the wide. It’s not the other way around so don’t get it twisted. Leave them and start fresh, this won’t end well for you emotionally.
I don't see that in the OP. Is that in a comment OP made somewhere? Regardless, it sounds like OP's cat is the instigator and OP has already tried some things unsuccessfully. Her bf has has a cat he's trying to protect, too.
If the cats can't live together, their options are limited. It's his house, OP's cat is the instigator, it's OP's cat that has to go. All that remains is whether or not OP wants to move out with her cat, or if she wants to stay with her boyfriend and re-home the cat. And that's a choice only she can make.
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You are not compatible because you are a functioning adult contributing to society and he is a pseudo-intellectual hobosexual mooching off of you.
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But if she thinks he has bad intentions then she's still putting herself in a bad situation whether they stay together or not. Sounds like she's using this guy to get a free vacation to see her family. So they're both looking to use each other. What could go wrong ?
I guess because I want it to be better
This… A good friend got her house at 23 and now 10 years later they are still somehow surprised and injured that a single woman has a house. People are stupid….
Why did this happen??
Some of the things you said, to her**
This is an open relationship not poly, and you’re the girlfriend not the wide. It’s not the other way around so don’t get it twisted. Leave them and start fresh, this won’t end well for you emotionally.
Narcissism.
I don't see that in the OP. Is that in a comment OP made somewhere? Regardless, it sounds like OP's cat is the instigator and OP has already tried some things unsuccessfully. Her bf has has a cat he's trying to protect, too.
If the cats can't live together, their options are limited. It's his house, OP's cat is the instigator, it's OP's cat that has to go. All that remains is whether or not OP wants to move out with her cat, or if she wants to stay with her boyfriend and re-home the cat. And that's a choice only she can make.