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Date: December 20, 2022
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One to two weeks is a pretty long time for a one night stand.
She deserves an honest discussion ASAP before she buys plane tickets, puts in for vacation time, and gets her hopes up for a romantic future.
Tell her that you are having second thoughts about the trip and want to cancel. Be clear that you just dont think there's a romantic match between the two of you, but be kind about it.
Wasn't cheating, they had an open relationship.
Pretty manipulative response from you, IMO. You were “talking” for 2 months and have met exactly one time. Who cares if she slept with someone? Why would she apologize to you? Why do you know so much about the guy she slept with?
You’re too attached to something that frankly does not exist, and you’re becoming personally offended by it. You need to be introspective about this. The problem is you, entirely.
Did he say that, or is that what you fear is true? Not wanting to be away from a treasured pet and not wanting to kennel them doesn’t mean they’re more important than you are.
I wish I was so lucky. One of my exes slapped me awake because she vividly dreamt I was cheating.
The relationship didn't survive the night.
I'm feeling bad because whatever I do, i'm in the bad. If things stay the same, my bf will not like it. If I say to my ex he can't come see his daughter, he will be mad.
By the way, anyone who say “I’m sorry, I’m ‘genuinely’ sorry” isn’t genuinely sorry. They’re just faking it, hyping their phony regrets so that they can prove to their friends who called them on their shit that they really mean it. It’s bullshit. Don’t fall for it.
Right. Well, it wasn’t bad in the beginning or even up to the point of his birth. It was after that when I got worse and it never stopped. But either way, thank you for your reply and I will do just that.
You are never going to trust him again. You also need to ask yourself is he really remorseful because of what he did or is it because he got caught. My money is on the latter.
Just because you 'love' someone does not mean they are good for you in any way, shape or form. I would question whether it's really love or familiarity, security, comfort and co-dependency, since he was your first everything. You admit your confidence and self esteem is shite.
You say you want to keep giving your bf “chances”. Does this imply that you are willing to let him cheat and treat you like garbage multiple times? “Chances” is enabling him, it's giving him permission to do it again if he hasn't already.
If he ever really truly loved you, then he never would have cheated on you. You just don't fucking hurt the people you love like that. He was selfish, opportunistic, getting off and/or getting his dick wet trumped your feelings. He never once thought about you, how this would hurt you, how much this would eat away at you, how this would humiliate you. He was horny, that was all.
Go get some therapy for your self esteem issues. Leave him and go find someone who will treat you infinitely better. Stop deluding yourself that this relationship is worth saving.
Idk if I'd call it emotional abuse but I feel like he doesn't understand the weight of what I have to deal with. I have 3ish more semesters, just started again. Getting a bachelor's.