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There’s nothing wrong with her having different goals, but she’s asking him to change his lifestyle to fit her goals when he doesn’t have the same ones. Why should he work more hours to buy her a house he doesn’t want? If she just walked away due to incompatibility that’d be fine, but that’s not what she’s doing.
Can I ask why you love him with all your heart??? Because it seems like this person has radically different values from you, and kind of doesn't respect that you're putting in hot work to have the career you want. That's not just a red flag, that's a reason to break up.
Honestly, your whole post kind of gives me a vibe of “we've continued in this relationship because nothing has really been that bad”, which is not at all the same thing as “we have had many difficult and important discussions about what we want out of life, and we are compatible and aligned on a deep level”.
Obviously I don't know the details of your relationship, but it kind of seems like everything has just been fine enough, you like each other enough to get along, you get along with each other's friends and family well enough, etc. But like… You don't commit to be with someone for the rest of your life because you can tolerate each other and there are no huge issues. Just based on the sheer volume of people in the world, you could probably have that relationship with literally hundreds if not thousands of people. The objective of finding someone you want to be with for the rest of your life shouldn't necessarily be settling for someone just because they're kind of a nice person and you kind of get along… And all of this is on top of the fact that you've known this person for literally a year, which is not a long time, and he is already being dismissive of your hard work, career goals, and the future that you see for yourself. He pouts and tries to make you feel guilty when you push back. That's not the behavior of someone that you should spend the rest of your life with. You shouldn't have to try to convince someone that you deserve a career and that you don't want to just be a housewife.
It kind of feels like you set the bar ridiculously low for how you expect to be treated by a partner. I don't say that to be harsh, rather, I say it to point out that you deserve better and that you can almost certainly find someone who has a vision of the future that aligns with the future you want for yourself! Or at the very least, someone who has enough respect for you to have a real, in-depth conversation about your mutual goals and desires, who will listen to you and really try to understand your point of view, and not try to make you feel guilty for wanting the life you do or try to convince you to just go along with whatever they want.
OP sounds like a dream