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Date: November 14, 2022
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Dump him. I don’t know about you, OP, but my nipples are relatively involved in my having orgasms. Having breast implant surgery can either heighten sensation to the nipples such that it is painful, or it can dull the sensitivity of the nipples to a large degree. So, I don’t want a boob job. Only get one if you want one, and frankly, do not get one for this guy. His pushiness with regard to your getting a boob job is a red flag and a harbinger of more bad things to come with him. Move on to someone who appreciates you for you.
Seriously, this is the most important advice here. This is 100% an ego issue. Wondering if OP is bothered by his fiancee masturbating too, as it's “someone else other than him” making her cum?
I guess your at a stale mate then. Accept every offer he throws out. At least it will stop him from pulling that shit.
But you obviously don't have to sleep with him. I'm not sure what else there is. Either you will get used to the facial hair or he will move onto another style…. Or I guess you need to have a serious is this relationship over conversation?
Your feelings don't invalidate her feelings. It sounds like she's working through a lot. I get tired of people jumping to therapy, but that might be useful here. It will also help her understand your thoughts, and feelings are as important as hers. Hopefully, you two will find a balance where you can listen to each other, not just hear each other.
You're right. The comments speak to the kind of all or none commitment that some kinds of people demand. Sounds like OP is a reasonable smart person and willing to move forward and work on a compromise. Sounds like her husband deserves her support. What kind of people abandon disabled siblings?
Thank you for the advice, yes I am thinking of doing something myself now just the problem is I live in a very small town so it’s kinda hard to do that but I will try regardless, because I really do need distractions
Unfortunately and believe me , even though this happened before you were super serious together it will haunt you for the rest of your life.
I am not saying you should leave her , but you need to understand the memory of her cheating and the mind movies will be with you forever. They will lessen with the passing of decades and therefore the pain will be manageable.
Unfortunately the next few years will be particularly tough even on your wedding day but as I said the pain will lessen.
If you are happy with the relationship and she has not cheated since , than you can have a good marriage ( despite the occasional intrusive thoughts).
It’s a tough one . I would suggest that you have a short separation for 2 reasons:
Just to let her understand beyond any doubt that you are absolutely DEVASTATED by what she did and that she was incredibly selfish to take your life choices away from you at the time
Just give yourself some space to think things thru without her excuses.
I am so so sorry this is absolutely devastating and it is hot for people who have not gone thru this to understand. Their advice is absolutely useless.
You ask yourself this question. Would someone who loves and respects me treat me this way? She's infatuated to the point that she's blind to how she's treating you. She's not who you thought she was, and she doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about her. She's made that clear through her actions. Just walk away, heal up, and start living your best life.