No. Revenge only drains your mental energy and poisons your mind. The person who wronged you doesn't deserve your time, energy, or attention. You'd be better off diverting that energy towards building yourself up, improving your life and moving on.
Any advice on how I can forgive her and let this go?
No one on reddit or elsewhere can answer this for you. Only you know what is needed for your wife to rebuild the trust in your relationship, and if you're drawing a blank then maybe there's nothing to be done.
How are you still a fuckboy at 72?
No. Revenge only drains your mental energy and poisons your mind. The person who wronged you doesn't deserve your time, energy, or attention. You'd be better off diverting that energy towards building yourself up, improving your life and moving on.
I wouldn’t be with someone who acted like that
Any advice on how I can forgive her and let this go?
No one on reddit or elsewhere can answer this for you. Only you know what is needed for your wife to rebuild the trust in your relationship, and if you're drawing a blank then maybe there's nothing to be done.
he’s probably still cheating, if he’s hanging out with her