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FINGER MY ASS VERY HOT AT GOAL //@EACH GOAL//HALLOWEEN MONTH, how do you want me to dress up? [129 tokens remaining]
Date: October 10, 2022
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From comments I read it sound like he just has a low sex drive and maybe insecure about it. My spouse and I were like rabbits and his depression makes his sex drive dive. And I mean weeks. I wasn't the most understanding about it, I took it personal. Eventually we got to a place of understanding. If he is willing to be this rigid, there isn't anything to save. You guys need to talk and really talk. No waterworks from you, control yourself, you both can have your feelings but feelings have no place in frank conversation.
Why do you want her back? She sounds like a nightmare.
She's sending mixed signals and blaming you. She can't emotionally regulate herself which is a red flag.
For your long-term happiness, move on.
Does porn affect your relationship / sex life with your wife? This could potentially be a question to ask, in terms of either of your needs potentially not being satisfied, and porn may be a reason.
Otherwise, it’s a tough one to call. I can understand your wife’s reaction to porn, as it’s very taboo (in terms of the recent 2 years for you), and can make her feel undermined / unloved / unattractive etc.
I think having a conversation about “why” she wants you to stop watching porn will be useful. Get to the root cause and see how you can solve that situation.
Moreover, what does porn serve to you? Is it a replacement for sexual activity with your wife, or something else?
TLDR.
I consider sugar stuff sex work, prostitution.
I think sex work is ok if it is not forced, you make sure you get paid and are able to ensure your physical safety.
That said, I would not date or be friends with soneone who did sex work as a choice (eg if it wasn't because of desperate poverty).
Read the top comment. It’s nothing to do directly with the ex or current boyfriend. It has to do with the mourning of time lost and a sense of inadequacy. It may not be something you’d feel but it doesn’t make it not valid. I also don’t blame the boyfriend for having a hard time with it either. They need to communicate better. I think jumping to wanting to break up without speaking to your partner is a huge leap and lacks empathy. If he voices his issues and she isn’t responsive then that is most definitely a red flag. Right now she may just not realize how it is affecting him because she is mourning.
How does it feel taking care of a full grown man's bowels? Sucks you have to mother your kids AND husbandm
Who’s theory is this?
Regardless, whether it’s objectively true or not, I don’t believe it’s fair to suggest that only applies to women. If you came here suggesting that “people” get bored of their partner when they spend a lot of time together, I could believe it to be true in context.
To back up, I’m a guy and I’m happily married. I tell you this so that you understand I’m not a woman blindly defending women. It’s just an absolutely absurd notion to think that this couldn’t happen to men either.
There’s no blanket truth about any gender or situation. Every relationship is unique. Now, I’ll always argue that independence is important and healthy in a relationship, meaning time to yourself and with friends. But like anything else, there needs to be a balance.
Outside of that, it’s still impossible to answer your questions as general statements of truth. Some couples can be together constantly and be perfectly happy. For some, they’ll need other things in their lives.
The thing is, these realizations rarely occur out of the blue. Communication is key, and these things need to be discussed from day one to assess compatibility. Things may naturally get a bit stale over time, but it’s at that point where you talk and work together to fix it. In summary, don’t make assumptions. Acknowledge reality.
because the relationship kind of was on its last legs, but he didn’t give it a chance
If it way dying, how many chances should he give it?
You're really upset because he isn't upset. Time to move on and be happy, healthy, and single too.
Girl, I once had a situation nearly exactly like this, but crazier.
Met a man on a sugar baby website back when I rolled like that. Was very upfront that I’m not looking to be a paid mistress, no married or attached men. Was with this guy for 8 months before I finally got an inkling to look him up. Found his moms obit live, found his wife on Facebook after. He offered me TEN THOUSAND to not tell, and let me tell you… I could be dying of starvation and I wouldn’t regret not taking that money. Told his wife, she left his ass and so did I. Best decision I ever made. Do it.
Lol it's obvious why you're posting this, and all your other bullshit, on a throwaway. No one would ever want to display such weak, low-level insect behavior on a real account.
Well if she will do more house chores then it will be fair.
You leave.
Anyone who disrespects you like that by telling you that you are not allowed to have feelings, and express them is not worthy of your time, energy, love or respect.