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I get that you want to stop for her but saying “it’s a problem I want to overcome with her” makes me feel like you want her to put emotional labor into helping you quit and that is not her job. Do this for you and for your future relationships, do not ask her to go through this journey with you or find ways to help you through it, it’s out of her pay grade, she’s not a professional.
Tell her to get therapy AND start looking for a divorce attorney. He should not stick around with someone who physically abuses him just because she agrees to get counseling
Honestly, that comes across as straight up self sabotage on her behalf. Literally the least appropriate or sensical thing she could do given she had to have known it would become a landmine waiting to bust you open later.
And look, I get you were invested but part of making your peace with it would be making sense of why she did it and I don't get the impression you were ever really given any insight. As a result it naturally doesn't sit right, how can you trust someone that did something that bizarre until you at least get an idea of what motivated it.
And yeah, that's the discussion I would have. Like why do it, what was the mindset. She knew it was wrong, it wasn't even as if there was a large window of opportunity. If it wasn't self destructive then it was straight up malicious, surely.
I get that you want to stop for her but saying “it’s a problem I want to overcome with her” makes me feel like you want her to put emotional labor into helping you quit and that is not her job. Do this for you and for your future relationships, do not ask her to go through this journey with you or find ways to help you through it, it’s out of her pay grade, she’s not a professional.
I hope this post can help them, no matter which scenario it is
Same here
Tell her to get therapy AND start looking for a divorce attorney. He should not stick around with someone who physically abuses him just because she agrees to get counseling
OP feeling that way doesn't make it reality though.
The sister has done more work to the tapping. She's been involved. She's a co-owner.
OP is the one that's not been helping and now wants to swoop in to do things her way and block co-owners from their rights.
It's pretty clear that OP just likes to control things, from projects she hasn't found important until others want it to her sister's free time.
Yeah idk why he didn’t value me
Honestly, that comes across as straight up self sabotage on her behalf. Literally the least appropriate or sensical thing she could do given she had to have known it would become a landmine waiting to bust you open later.
And look, I get you were invested but part of making your peace with it would be making sense of why she did it and I don't get the impression you were ever really given any insight. As a result it naturally doesn't sit right, how can you trust someone that did something that bizarre until you at least get an idea of what motivated it.
And yeah, that's the discussion I would have. Like why do it, what was the mindset. She knew it was wrong, it wasn't even as if there was a large window of opportunity. If it wasn't self destructive then it was straight up malicious, surely.