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Date: November 21, 2022
You’re absolutely right. That’s how it started, and it’s pretty scary realizing where I’m at now.
Yikes. This is not pleasant from any angle.
So, my first worry is the gun/mental health part. He's pulled his gun on you before? Like, y'all fighting and screaming and he decides to show you his gun to shut you up???? Am I understanding that correctly? That's a red flag. Unless you're coming at him with a cleaver and he's defending himself, there is no effing reason he should pull a gun on you.
Please tell me y'all were doing some Mortal Kombat role-play… Seriously, though, pulling a weapon on someone is an immediate “GTFO situation” for me. Has he displayed this sort of behaviour more than once?
If so, I would then say, yes, please warn this new girl about his anger issues!!! However, you will always be considered and spoken of as “the crazy ex” by this guy. It doesn't even matter if you show up with bruises and police reports and restraining orders – he will frame your entire history together as “that crazy one”. The new girl will probably also not believe you entirely – at least, not at first. If she's observant, she'll notice his red flags and run…I hope.
If the new girl really, blatantly, reaches out in your mutual social group “Are we dating the same guy?” Then absolutely give her your point of view. Other than that, you really just need to escape his toxicity yourself and let others see him for what he is, without your warnings.
Good luck!
Reading this dudes thoughts is like window shopping on r/niceguys
Yeah I think if I were to put myself in the wife’s shoes (and remembering how low I felt as a new mom with PPA/PPD) I would probably be more upset that my name was brought up as a joke when she was just trying to be supportive and listen in, not that I’m not the number one fan, it feels like it was an unnecessary addition. And it depends if wife and brother actually have a good relationship normally or there is strain. Her reaction to knock him down a peg shows a big reaction. But also most importantly CHECK IN WITH HER TO SEE HOW SHES FEELING AND IF SHE NEEDS TO SPEAK WITH HER PCM OR THERAPIST being a new parent is such an adjustment between the hormones, body image, fourth trimester and being touched/needed literally all the time.
She disrespected you and your relationship and somehow she's annoyed with you? Oh OP, she has flipped reality until she's the victim. FYI I do not know a single person who would be ok with what she's done without explicit 'permission' in a previous conversation.
Also, she 'probably' wouldn't do it sober? Yeah, you know she would and you deserve better.