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Date: November 22, 2022
I'm going to throw out an observation that's probably wrong, but it feels like you're in the high functioning spectrum? I say this because you type how my dad (Aspergers) speaks.
Now, if that's true there is likely a big gulf in between her communication style and your communication style which isn't as easy to bridge as some people not on the spectrum can.
An obvious observation is why do you think your communication style is the correct way, and hers is wrong and should be adjusted to your style? I'm not disagreeing with you, because I too prefer straight forward feedback but I appreciate that it's not always possible for people to deliver information that way.
I do need to point out that, irrespective of spectrum or not, your spiraling and paranoia is a tad extreme and your extrapolation of data isn't beneficial. Only you can control this and its unfair to assign blame or responsibility to someone else.
Can't really say without knowing the full dynamics of your relationship, like if there are other issues that could be affecting her thoughts. If it were me, if it was a great relationship otherwise, I wouldn't break up over it. If there are other issues though, some you may not even be aware of, this could have been the straw that broke the camels back.
It sounds like she puts a lot of meaning into birthdays, some people do.
I was thinking this too. With the way OP phrased things, it sounded like the coworkers may have actually been bullying his ex by pretending to be her friend just so they could mess with her life.
People are saying that OP's ex shouldn't have been easily swayed by the coworkers, but people forget that we spend more time at work than at home. It should be obvious that spending 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, with a bunch of people telling you that you should leave your partner is going to affect you psychologically. It was her workplace as well, so she wouldn't have been able to just walk away and ignore these people. These places of work also don't have HR, so she wouldn't have even been able to properly complain to the 'boss'.
Because he wants casual so I’m giving him exactly what he wants. He wants to be casual with me then I’ll act it. I want to see him.. I wouldn’t have have reached out if I didn’t want to see him.
I guess I’m just disappointed because I’m into him and I want him to be into me. I want him to tell me flat out. And I want him to tell me if he’s making a trip out here. He didn’t say anything about it when I asked.
He could compromise quite easily by growing the scruffy beard as well then he wouldn't have to shave the moustache, everyone happy
Call and have him placed on involuntary mental hold. I always take suicide threats seriously, and there's no downside. If they're serious, you might have just saved their life. If they're just being manipulative, spending 48 hours in a facility will convince them that they should pick a different thing to threaten in the future.
She has a mac, and can play it on there for $15 if she shops around. That's the cost she's complaining about paying
I mean, there are a couple things you could do.
Cutting off all contact with T will cause the most drama, not only for you but for your friend group, and it’s honestly harsher than what you did to your ex.
I say, phase him out from “friend” to “acquaintance”. You’ll go to parties he’s at and won’t shun him from a conversation, but you’re not confiding in each other and you’re probably not giving him invites to anything you host.
People make mistakes. They also have to live with the consequences of those mistakes. I personally wouldn’t go to the party, but wouldn’t burn bridges.
Oh u shouldn't bt thank u. I'm luckily not married to someone that has to be emotionally manipulative to keep me with them. I've been in relationships like urs but as a teenager! Actual abusers. Emotionally, sexually, physical abuse. I recognize gaslighting when i read about it. If u this this is a healthy relationship…
Yikes..
I Wised up and expected more health from my partner for my own sanity and theirs in the future. I can actually have healthy communication with my partner. I'm a happily married woman to a man that hates abusers as much as i do!
Can u say the same?!
If u want to stay with this chick go ahead dude.
No one is stopping u bt everyone except u can see how toxic this relationship is. So again good luck and strongs if u wanna build a marriage on a relationship with a start like this!
Ul have some entitled ass kids who think this behavior is healthy because mommy exhibits it and daddy just takes it!
Have fun!
Only she knows…Maybe she will explain more..in the mean time start fucking her more. Sometimes thats all it takes.
Then you need to start by documenting everything from this moment on.
I’m also going to point out that this has gone beyond sexual harassment in the workplace. One of your direct reports is stalking you, OP. And yes I am trying to alarm you when I ask— would you rather deal with a sexual harassment lawsuit, or a rape trial?