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Date: October 11, 2022
No. Leave it. She’s just a co-worker and you don’t owe her any deeper insight into your personal life. You think you have a deeper connection because you have feelings for her. But sharing your feelings with her will only create more intimacy between you, just the thing you don’t want.
She is just a co-worker. You don’t have to be rude, but you only owe her professionalism and politeness.
You're going to have to grab your pair on this one and tell her to kick rocks. You didn't do anything wrong.
I mean, this shit is toxic and please do leave the “relationship” but you don't owe her anything but a goodbye and an explanation.
As an aside: have that conversation! You know the one I'm talking about—what are we?! Yoooooo! This whole thing would have never happened if you did, my guy!
So I'm confused? The first paragraph talks about how much you love her and how perfect she is and how this is bothering you and the second paragraph you want to break things off?
So the advice I always give, is to understand how you feel now isn't how you will feel down the road, is this something that you want to work through to better yourself and your relationship? if not then move on, if so then get some help.
How you're feeling is completely normal. Yes, this is due to insecurities, but we all have them and we all grow out of them if we are aware of our own insecurities. If you are in a relationship with someone, never talk about how good they were or how bad they were. All it does it create emotions like this. You're ex's are in your past, leave them there. Go talk to your girlfriend!
This is exactly the kind of advice that I and my roommate were hoping to get; I was hesitant to post because I was worried that I wasn't going to get any decent advice due to the stigma around BPD, so genuinely from both of us, thank you for this. This is going to be immensely helpful in allowing us to address this without causing alienation.
Ashley is aware that she needs therapy but at the moment she barely has the money to feed herself and, as she has no insurance, isn't able to get therapy currently. She's in a bit of a tight situation after having a falling out with a previous FP where she moved in with him and then he ended up being manipulative and abusive causing her housing situation to be in question, and then between him and Jacob, she has been rapidly flitting from one FP to another that either haven't been good people or just haven't worked out even as far as just being friends with them goes. So yes, she is spiraling hardcore because, the moment anything that might be even slightly interpreted as romantic happens, she becomes fixated on that.
She does try to be self-aware but as you correctly pointed out, she's spiraling and that is causing her to be stubborn and defensive about this new relationship that she wants. That said, I don't think she's tried DBT before, but we will absolutely keep it in mind for any future conversations we have with her.
She has been trying hot to do that.
So many posts on here lately about couples dating for years, engaged, married, without being on the same page 100% about having a family. Blows my fucking mind.
I think there's something else going on. Unless she's always been verbally abusive, she wouldn't all of a sudden start picking on all of the little things unless there was a big thing bothering her. Maybe it has nothing to do with you, maybe it has everything to do with you. Try and have a conversation with her and see if there is a core issue that she's dealing with, whether it has to do with your relationship or something else completely.