You already knew her true colors – she was with him for his money, and she wasn't going to leave him because of it. She was cheating on him with you. You were okay with that.
She embarrassed you in a bar, and now you don't like her?
Are you telling him to assuage your guilt? Make him feel as bad as you do? Just inform him?
If you do, just be a man and tell him. Expect that he won't be grateful for the info. You won't be buds.
I honestly don't even know what to think anymore. Everyone thinks I'm a heartless asshole and I'm being flooded with notifications. I just hope some people see my edit, and see that I am not going on holiday anymore. I hope people are happy.
He doesn’t love you, he loves that you provide everything for him. You are imagining a future with him that really doesn’t exist. Give yourself 3 weeks without him, see how you feel better after the 3 weeks, you will probably lose a lot of stress and tension if you take time for yourself.
I'm assuming you two were serious and in a relationship, and not that “what are we?” phase.
People are going very strong for how poorly this bit is laid out.
Though as my other response says, the communication and trust int he relationship wasn't very good early days if this couldn't have been hashed out earlier
Sounds like he’s lying and cheating on you. This story screams double life. If the person on the phone was really a relative, then they know his other partner and so he had to lie about who you are or it was his other partner who he has to lie about who you are to them. If you were smart you would divorce him.
You already knew her true colors – she was with him for his money, and she wasn't going to leave him because of it. She was cheating on him with you. You were okay with that.
She embarrassed you in a bar, and now you don't like her?
Are you telling him to assuage your guilt? Make him feel as bad as you do? Just inform him?
If you do, just be a man and tell him. Expect that he won't be grateful for the info. You won't be buds.
I honestly don't even know what to think anymore. Everyone thinks I'm a heartless asshole and I'm being flooded with notifications. I just hope some people see my edit, and see that I am not going on holiday anymore. I hope people are happy.
He doesn’t love you, he loves that you provide everything for him. You are imagining a future with him that really doesn’t exist. Give yourself 3 weeks without him, see how you feel better after the 3 weeks, you will probably lose a lot of stress and tension if you take time for yourself.
I'm assuming you two were serious and in a relationship, and not that “what are we?” phase.
People are going very strong for how poorly this bit is laid out.
Though as my other response says, the communication and trust int he relationship wasn't very good early days if this couldn't have been hashed out earlier
Sounds like he’s lying and cheating on you. This story screams double life. If the person on the phone was really a relative, then they know his other partner and so he had to lie about who you are or it was his other partner who he has to lie about who you are to them. If you were smart you would divorce him.