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If you want to stay together maybe consider seeing a different therapist for both of you together. It’s unfair of him to get clinical in your arguments when you aren’t prepared to counter in his language. There are larger emotional issues here beyond sex – his behavior is impacting your self-esteem and psychological safety. A better option might just be to cut your losses.
Personally, even though the age difference is only 10 years, this man is grooming you. I don’t believe on your own that you want to have other partners I think you want to fall in love and be with the person you love. And I think some of your distress is because he is pushing you so that he can cheat when he’s gone and make it legal so you have to deal with it. You need to get out of this relationship. Your suicidal thoughts though probably have origins in other things previously are due to stress of living in a way you don’t really want to live. And I’m not sure if you’re even aware of it.
Have the abortion, just because he wants the child doesn’t mean that you should sacrifice your body and life and have the burden of responsibility of the care of a baby. You would be the one carrying the burden of having the baby and carrying for it. Are you really ready for the responsibility of a child. Who cares if your boyfriend is sad. All the pain, hardship and responsibility will fall on you.
You did bad things and you don’t seem to feel sorry.
YOU DIDNT MAKE A MISTAKE. You cheated multiple times. You say in your own post you’ve been seeing women (PLURAL) on the side. That is despicable and it’s concerning you don’t see it that way.
As I’ve already seen in this thread you need to apologize to her and come clean. That’s it that’s the only way. And then you have to respect whatever decision she makes and not beg her. You fucked up here and you just have to take your lumps. that’s it.
I wouldn’t place any value on any comments from “the hot one” – she sounds like a nasty bitch. Literally just dismiss everything she says as being shallow crap.
The other comment about Thailand is vague and it’s not clear if the coworker would’ve made the comment about any guy going to Thailand. You could ask the coworker if there was a reason for his comment. Unless there are more examples like this, I wouldn’t read too much into it.
If you have an issue with him following/liking girls stuff, that’s okay and you should bring that up with him. Some people are fine with it, some people aren’t. Personally I wouldn’t be okay with my bf liking instamodels bikini pics (there’s just no need) but if it’s just his girl friends posting normal pics of their life then I would have no issue.
I understand if it’s making you think that maybe they’re seeing a side of him that you don’t see and that’s worrying you.
If you are worried that they’ll think less of you because they think your bf is fat/stupid then you need to learn to care less about what others think and be more secure in yourself – I wouldn’t bring that up with him as it doesn’t make you look great.
If you want to stay together maybe consider seeing a different therapist for both of you together. It’s unfair of him to get clinical in your arguments when you aren’t prepared to counter in his language. There are larger emotional issues here beyond sex – his behavior is impacting your self-esteem and psychological safety. A better option might just be to cut your losses.
Read the headline.
First thought: “Honey… you may not have. But HE sure has!”
Personally, even though the age difference is only 10 years, this man is grooming you. I don’t believe on your own that you want to have other partners I think you want to fall in love and be with the person you love. And I think some of your distress is because he is pushing you so that he can cheat when he’s gone and make it legal so you have to deal with it. You need to get out of this relationship. Your suicidal thoughts though probably have origins in other things previously are due to stress of living in a way you don’t really want to live. And I’m not sure if you’re even aware of it.
Have the abortion, just because he wants the child doesn’t mean that you should sacrifice your body and life and have the burden of responsibility of the care of a baby. You would be the one carrying the burden of having the baby and carrying for it. Are you really ready for the responsibility of a child. Who cares if your boyfriend is sad. All the pain, hardship and responsibility will fall on you.
What did he do to make you not like him besides exist ?
You should be talked down to.
You did bad things and you don’t seem to feel sorry.
YOU DIDNT MAKE A MISTAKE. You cheated multiple times. You say in your own post you’ve been seeing women (PLURAL) on the side. That is despicable and it’s concerning you don’t see it that way.
As I’ve already seen in this thread you need to apologize to her and come clean. That’s it that’s the only way. And then you have to respect whatever decision she makes and not beg her. You fucked up here and you just have to take your lumps. that’s it.
I wouldn’t place any value on any comments from “the hot one” – she sounds like a nasty bitch. Literally just dismiss everything she says as being shallow crap.
The other comment about Thailand is vague and it’s not clear if the coworker would’ve made the comment about any guy going to Thailand. You could ask the coworker if there was a reason for his comment. Unless there are more examples like this, I wouldn’t read too much into it.
If you have an issue with him following/liking girls stuff, that’s okay and you should bring that up with him. Some people are fine with it, some people aren’t. Personally I wouldn’t be okay with my bf liking instamodels bikini pics (there’s just no need) but if it’s just his girl friends posting normal pics of their life then I would have no issue.
I understand if it’s making you think that maybe they’re seeing a side of him that you don’t see and that’s worrying you.
If you are worried that they’ll think less of you because they think your bf is fat/stupid then you need to learn to care less about what others think and be more secure in yourself – I wouldn’t bring that up with him as it doesn’t make you look great.