So, say you keep this baby, say it’s a girl. Would you be okay with your daughter at 12 dating a 19 year old? Would you be okay with your daughter having the relationship dynamic you do?
You’ve been groomed, you’re being abused, please leave this dumpster fire of a man. He’s not going to be a good father, chances are if your child is a little girl he’ll abuse her too. When you leave you need to talk to DV resources ASAP if you keep that baby to protect it. I’d personally abort if I were you, being tied to someone like that for 18 years will be hell.
Mmm. I’d break up. This is messy but I don’t think anyone is at fault. I get you not trusting her at first when there is a body of sexts from people she use to talk to. I also get just not caring enough to delete them.
I think your issue is that it feels uncomfortable to read them….however you never should have read those. Don’t go looking for trouble and you won’t find it. You sought out some hurt and now your feelings are hurt but it’s not her fault. if she’s cut off these sexual relations and they really are from before you see together then you’re just stabbing your self in the heart and then crying about it
I’ll tell you this. It gets easier not to care about this stuff as you get older. I’m almost 31 and anyone my age as a sexual past. Well most people I should say. But the point is that sexual history is an unavoidable aspect of life and you can spend the rest of your life getting upset about it with every person you date or you can just let it go. You have a sexual history too.
You're not being dramatic. Do you want to be with someone who thinks being threatened with a gun can be brushed off so easily? I'd say you don't know your BF like you think you do.
Don’t go out with him, you are way too young but also who knows if he’s nice.
Lol. Thanks!
Thank you, you make a good point about robbery. I’ll think about it!
So, say you keep this baby, say it’s a girl. Would you be okay with your daughter at 12 dating a 19 year old? Would you be okay with your daughter having the relationship dynamic you do?
You’ve been groomed, you’re being abused, please leave this dumpster fire of a man. He’s not going to be a good father, chances are if your child is a little girl he’ll abuse her too. When you leave you need to talk to DV resources ASAP if you keep that baby to protect it. I’d personally abort if I were you, being tied to someone like that for 18 years will be hell.
Mmm. I’d break up. This is messy but I don’t think anyone is at fault. I get you not trusting her at first when there is a body of sexts from people she use to talk to. I also get just not caring enough to delete them.
I think your issue is that it feels uncomfortable to read them….however you never should have read those. Don’t go looking for trouble and you won’t find it. You sought out some hurt and now your feelings are hurt but it’s not her fault. if she’s cut off these sexual relations and they really are from before you see together then you’re just stabbing your self in the heart and then crying about it
I’ll tell you this. It gets easier not to care about this stuff as you get older. I’m almost 31 and anyone my age as a sexual past. Well most people I should say. But the point is that sexual history is an unavoidable aspect of life and you can spend the rest of your life getting upset about it with every person you date or you can just let it go. You have a sexual history too.
They weren't together tho
You're not being dramatic. Do you want to be with someone who thinks being threatened with a gun can be brushed off so easily? I'd say you don't know your BF like you think you do.
What does indirectly mock you mean?