He never would have told you. You caught him so he’s only sorry about getting caught. Don’t fall for sunk cost fallacy. You’ve no children together so that works in your favour. Divorce him and get a STD test asap
I think it just comes down to your definition of cheating and your boundaries. Personally, “window shopping” as you put it, would be a deal-breaker for me.
Paying for sex and sexual content while in a monogamous relationship is generally frowned upon as porn is free.
I would just say you saw his flirting texts and you're not cool with it.
Yeah OP sounds like a grade A happiness sucker. Her poor husband sounds like he’s trying so hot, too. Hope he finds someone great to make up for hat an awful wife OP is.
Tsk tsk. You’re doing a whole lot of shit slinging and not a lot of defending your previous statements… you do know your post history is public right? And you seem to be doing a lot of one hit replies (saying something wildly off topic, attaching an insult and then ditching).
Even if the pregnancy was real… How do you know it was yours? Even if you two had sex… How do you think she's okay even though she clearly took advantage of you? I assume she knew that you had a girlfriend too… As everyone else said, break up with the girl, write a letter to your ex, then leave her alone and, most importantly, get therapy for dealing with the sexual assault. Also, celebrate your break up with now-fiance, you could've ended up being married to a person you don't love, and who possibly is rapist/manipulative.
She is not looking to getting married; she is looking to getting rich.
He never would have told you. You caught him so he’s only sorry about getting caught. Don’t fall for sunk cost fallacy. You’ve no children together so that works in your favour. Divorce him and get a STD test asap
It's a great time to move on. Start the New Year fresh and clean from that trash
I think it just comes down to your definition of cheating and your boundaries. Personally, “window shopping” as you put it, would be a deal-breaker for me.
Paying for sex and sexual content while in a monogamous relationship is generally frowned upon as porn is free.
I would just say you saw his flirting texts and you're not cool with it.
Yeah super funny
Yeah super funny
This isn’t about that.
She has done past experience with someone doing something sexual to her and she’s projecting it into this situation
I've had people ask me if I'm using something that I was close by even though I wasn't using it. It's just a courtesy thing at the gym.
Yeah OP sounds like a grade A happiness sucker. Her poor husband sounds like he’s trying so hot, too. Hope he finds someone great to make up for hat an awful wife OP is.
seems like he is using the spot for someones car, just not yours
Tsk tsk. You’re doing a whole lot of shit slinging and not a lot of defending your previous statements… you do know your post history is public right? And you seem to be doing a lot of one hit replies (saying something wildly off topic, attaching an insult and then ditching).
Projecting what?
Even if the pregnancy was real… How do you know it was yours? Even if you two had sex… How do you think she's okay even though she clearly took advantage of you? I assume she knew that you had a girlfriend too… As everyone else said, break up with the girl, write a letter to your ex, then leave her alone and, most importantly, get therapy for dealing with the sexual assault. Also, celebrate your break up with now-fiance, you could've ended up being married to a person you don't love, and who possibly is rapist/manipulative.