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Date: October 8, 2022
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It’s very disrespectful
Maybe…maybe the gf only acts rude to you in public. Maybe she’s actually a very sincere person and really cares for her bf. You could cause emotional damage to both ur crush and his gf
I once picked up an extra sock at a laundromat, even though I was the only person doing laundry there at the time. Small items can be missed in the washer or dryer.
But her reaction is definitely over the tip, and that alone makes it suspicious.
It's a troll.
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I'm not sure if it's more of a “what should we do with it as a couple”, or rather a “how should I deal with this insecurity on my own” question, but let's go.
Background:
My lover is an artist, with a degree from the best arts academy in my country. Many known artists graduated from there. She also finished one of the top schools. I think she really is one of a kind. A very bright person, with immense knowledge of visual arts, literature, nature, biology and history. Not only she has this knowledge, but she's way above average intelligence. It looks like she sees like 5 times more than other people and it is very inspiring. She uses the most poetic kind of language I have ever heard, I don't recall anyone describing their feelings this way. She's also on the autism spectrum and pretty straightforward with her opinions. And honestly… I'm feeling kinda tired and sad lately.
When she listens to music – it is the most exquisite and original you can find. Either that or it has to have great poetic lyrics. The music I enjoy is met with a blank stare.
When I talk about some idea I had before sleep – she says she remembers this topic from the first philosophy lesson in high school.
When I take her out to eat, or when I make breakfast – the food is always just ok. She has like one place where she eats the same dish like 3 times a week and according to her it's like made by God, the rest is just too salty, too oily, too hot, too sweet, etc.
When I wear a new cologne – she says “hey, don't be offended, but don't wear this cologne next time we meet”.
When she's travelling – only wandering around and finding original places and talking to people can be called traveling. My usual way, which is visiting places which the city I visit is known for (museums, churches, etc. is not traveling in her opinion)
She only wears cashmere or merino wool, everything else is regarded as bad or artificial. Although I gave her a merino wool hat and it's not warm enough in her opinion.
I'm also someone who makes visual art for a job. I showed her some of my work – met with no comment. She often talks about some genius artist she met though.
She loved one person in her life and I'm not that person. I told her – just talk to me like a friend then. She replied with brutal honesty – “You're not a friend yet.”
She had lots of wild sex, because she has problems with achieveing sexual pleasure, so she tried a lot of things. I'm pretty vanilla and don't even know what to do with her in bed most of the time. She says she wants me to be more dominating, but how can I be, if I'm not sure if she even wants to have sex (She's not really sure most of time rarely has an orgasm, even playing with herself and has little libido.)
Today I just kinda snapped. She told me she thinks there's something wrong with my audio setup. She said “Something's very wrong, I have ears, you know. Goodnight.” I replied “Yo” and she immediately got confused, because I always reply with “Goodnight”, but I played it cool. I feel like there's almost nothing that can make her content, or maybe there is, but I'm none of that. I honestly have no idea what she sees in me, she doesn't even laugh at my jokes. She thinks I'm handsome and that's all I know and I'm not even sure about that, because she calls a lot of guys handsome. I just feel so small and pedestrian.
At the same time, I know she doesn't say it to annoy me – I honestly think she has such high bar to finding something good enough or even tolerable (she's also highly sensitive to smells and touch) that it's like my self esteem takes a constant beating. Lately I just stopped doing some things because inevitably we'll talk about it and she'll voice her negative opinion.
What is the problem here? Is it my envy? My self-esteem? The way we communicate? I feel very confused.
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She broke his trust, he should be checking on her until he feels that she is doing her part to save the marriage, or until he feels it's not worth saving.
I have heard bullshit excuses but “Google was wrong” gotta be one of the most bullshittier bullshit I have ever heard. The fact that he “flash deleted” those apps after you mentioned it, shows that he was well aware that these apps were there and he felt bad he got caught.
I may be Mis reading your comment. But my intention is not to break up with her. Like I said she has the potential but lacks the motivation. It’s like she just wants it handed to her but at the same time knows that life isn’t like that. I just want to be honest without making it sound like a complete idiot and having her think I’m ending things when I’m reality I’m not.