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Date: November 3, 2022
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You can go be in the guest house as well or in another part of the house where you can’t smell her products.
Maybe. It’s much more of a hateful negativity where’s she’s like “it’ll fucking suck” and not like the “I don’t think it’ll be that fun :(“ but I’ll indulge on your opinion some more
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Me (20) and my gf (21). We have been in a relationship for 3 years already and we had a fight, after the arguing she made a rule that everything that we do that includes kiss, hugs and etc needs permission from both parties. What do you guys think?
For me its kinda funny to think that I have to ask permission for that even tho we’ve been in a relationship for 3 years already.
edit: So last Thursday I went with my mom on a trip which was 200km away from here. The original plan was to come with us that day but she said she’ll go with her friend because they also have a besties night. So I said okay go no problem for me. As a boyfriend I would like to ask for updates and she does the same too so for me I thought it was right for me to ask. Then it was very hot for her to give me updates even when she was with her friend already. So I kept overthinking what was happening and that continued until Saturday night. The morning on Saturday our company had an event so she also went there but only for 2 hours. Then she said that she wanted to go back to their hotel so she rest and I said okay I will go and drive her there and then came Saturday night. So she and her friend with her boyfriend went to a bar. I told her to enjoy since it’s been a while for them to see each other and party. But ever since she left the event that company held, starting from 5pm until 12am she had no replies to my messages, no updates on where she is or what she is doing. I understand they are enjoying but I couldn’t sleep thinking that she is not giving me updates while she is partying in a bar with her friend. Then my issue came where I was overthinking again and couple minutes past 12am she replied that she was going home. I kept calling here but she kept on dropping my call. This made me overthink more and also gave me anxiety. I couldn’t sleep because of my chest being so heavy. Then after calling her many times, she answered, then I told her in a calm voice that I will go to there hotel and drive her home to our hotel with my mom so she could go with us when we go home on Sunday. Then after going home (she lives with me btw) I was still overthinking, what if she has someone else, what if she is talking to someone, she was very distant from me starting November up to now. So I'm guessing there was something wrong. FYI no I didn't abuse her or anything even on her pass relationships. Since the heavy feeling on my chest won't go away. I talked to her then she told me that I was too suffocating in a way that I wanted her to update me. So then and there she talked about having her me time, privacy and the question that I asked about which was about the rule she gave.
Edit: Before this rule I could do sweet things like kiss and hug her without asking verbally. All I do is make a pout or extend my arms. So it’s not very normal for me to ask her verbally if I can kiss or hug every-time I wanted to do it. It goes both ways.
edit: Thank you for the people who gave advice. Sorry for not being able to reply to most of the people here since we are in different timezones.
Last edit: Again thank you for the people that gave really good advice. I understand that there are people who agrees and disagrees with my question. I have concluded that I think I should fix myself and give each other personal space and respect. I will try and look for solutions to fix my overthinking and will try to talk her again. Thank you all!
Your text was probably offputting for him. First you say you're stepping back, then you say he can text you anytime, if he feels better. If things were great up til he had a depressive episode and your focus was for him to fix it, he might just feel like you're not emotionally someone safe for him to be with. That's how I would take your text.
You mean you didn't notice any red flags when he never once admitted fault, or said sorry (and actually meant it), or said sorry a thousand times and didn't mean it even once?
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Lol I’m black Kate is being weird
I feel like it’s got more to do with jealousy but don’t take my word for it as I don’t know any of you lol
Ma’am, she liked some posts on social media.
You lost your mind at 4 am over a meme.
One of you is more wrong than the other and it’s you.
Ironically, that may be happening too, also.
No she does not, you’re absolutely right. I’m going to try and think of what the best way to do this is.
“It's niche … to preserve anonymity …” lol as if he's going to tell us what it is and someone will be like “OMG IT'S KEVIN!”
You did nothing wrong.
Social media is a good way of shaming her for sexualising you caring for your sister.
You’re one of those women that has a heinous partner that says all kinds of creepy stuff to their daughter and they pretends it’s not happening. It’s literally a trope at this point.
Yes, he is a creep. Know this
It's a red flag to me for two reasons she is entertaining fools idea that he doesn't know about you, which means he probably still talks to her inappropriately.
The acting like she already told you is a big one too for me. Without trust I couldn't move on. I would need her to stop talking to him for sure but I don't think i would ever trust her not to after this so really it's up to you brother.
no sex before marriage
Oral
Lmao
Does he have ADD?
Is he a stoner?
Seems to be a debate between “your boyfriend is supportive and loving and wants to help” and “your boyfriend is a manipulative ass who wants to force you to be his servant”. You know which of these best represents your boyfriend. I wonder if your friends are concerned that history may repeat itself and you'll end up in a coercive and abusive relationship again, but you sound self aware, you've developed understanding of yourself and your needs. Your boyfriend has recognized that you need support and has come up with a solution, and not all men are manipulative bastards – honestly, I think you're safe to make your own decisions here. All the best to you.
No, you are doing the right thing. First off, his action at the wake was unconscionable and clearly shows his desire for absolution is entirely about him and not what he did to you. Second, fuck sake, he is apologizing about hurting and terrorizing you as a child and he STILL makes it about himself? WTF?
If a dog bites you, you don't need to take a long time to stop loving it. You showed her you don't love her and she reacted accordingly.
Have you met his family? How do you know what he told them?
How is asking a question sneaky?
You’re the one who’s selling themselves for food & entertainment..
Still haven’t acknowledged you’re posting the same story consistently & changing ages.
Also I’m a women but whatever floats your delusion boat
Some people don’t want careers they want jobs that pay the bills, and even if he wanted a career where would he find the time when he’s managing your shit on top of his own?