Also, if you have less people around you on your special day, it’ll feel more intimate and you can converse with everyone. Big weddings are great, but they aren’t for everyone.
I would prefer to have a very close circle of wonderful people in my life (even if I’m not blood related to them) than a ton of family and friends who cause drama or simply don’t mean that much to you.
Do not feel embarrassed. You’re starting a new and amazing family with your fiancé.
Ha, nothing even close to that heroic. I was just really stupid and naive, as my dad often reminds me. There are plenty of people who did a lot more than me who managed not to get themselves arrested and completely fuck up their lives. There’s not much romance in being dumb and unlucky.
And unfortunately in real life things don’t often work out that way. It’s just as likely that she’ll be upset to have heard from me at all. Or just won’t care. It’s been a long time and she doesn’t owe me anything.
Yeah, I guess I shouldn’t have given that much effort to our relationship after the first breakup. We humans forget pretty easily, but I was definitely dumb for this one.
he was there when his dad yelled at me and he’s the one who told me there is other girls there now but he told me “is what it is” and “can’t do much about the other rounds”
Also the world and culture are changing more quickly. We as individuals have to change too. My parents spanked me with a belt. I as a parent see that the way my parents acted and passed on to me isn't right now with younger generations and I have to learn and change with it. I don't get to turn off my brain and not evolve. Or, I guess I could, but I would lose my children and grandchildren.
People have this misconception that the morning after pill works miracles. It does not.
Firstly, it has a weight limit. It's on the back of the packaging.
Secondly, it only delays ovulation. If she's ovulated. You basically wasted your money on it.
The pill isn't a miracle.
“Y si mi abuela tuviese ruedas, sería una bicicleta”, as we say in my neck of the woods.
That's an alternative reality, not what happened, so it's irrelevant.
I was thinking a glorious destination wedding!
Also, if you have less people around you on your special day, it’ll feel more intimate and you can converse with everyone. Big weddings are great, but they aren’t for everyone.
I would prefer to have a very close circle of wonderful people in my life (even if I’m not blood related to them) than a ton of family and friends who cause drama or simply don’t mean that much to you.
Do not feel embarrassed. You’re starting a new and amazing family with your fiancé.
Go sleep on the couch, call an Uber, call a friend… anything but sleep in the same bed as another dude and spoon all night.
Ha, nothing even close to that heroic. I was just really stupid and naive, as my dad often reminds me. There are plenty of people who did a lot more than me who managed not to get themselves arrested and completely fuck up their lives. There’s not much romance in being dumb and unlucky.
And unfortunately in real life things don’t often work out that way. It’s just as likely that she’ll be upset to have heard from me at all. Or just won’t care. It’s been a long time and she doesn’t owe me anything.
She’s bitter about being rejected. Doesn’t get why you want to hang with her platonically.
Yeah, I guess I shouldn’t have given that much effort to our relationship after the first breakup. We humans forget pretty easily, but I was definitely dumb for this one.
he was there when his dad yelled at me and he’s the one who told me there is other girls there now but he told me “is what it is” and “can’t do much about the other rounds”
My God, the delusion just drips from every word
You should seek some INTENSE therapy. In patient perhaps? I don’t think outpatient can fix this
Also the world and culture are changing more quickly. We as individuals have to change too. My parents spanked me with a belt. I as a parent see that the way my parents acted and passed on to me isn't right now with younger generations and I have to learn and change with it. I don't get to turn off my brain and not evolve. Or, I guess I could, but I would lose my children and grandchildren.
Take the quotations off “raping” in title.
He raped you.
Is this person an ex? A long time friend? Someone he has any history with?