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Date: November 5, 2022
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The problem isnt you need to compromise more, or you’re too sensitive or too selfish, the problem is you didn’t speak up for your needs and find solutions that worked for you both. The way you describe yourself, you sound like a people pleaser, because pleasers are great friends and are often great socially but are also often introverts and struggle with boundaries and are prone to depression and being taken advantage of because they doubt their own needs so they sacrifice themselves to keep the peace. When really what they need is to learn to negotiate solutions that both sides are comfortable with and to not ignore their own needs just because someone is pushy about theirs.
As for the new woman, that’s the real issue in my opinion. The fact that things are good with her is making you rethink your current relationship. But that’s a false comparison, you know you were happy with your current gf in the beginning too. The problem was you kept on giving up what you wanted to make her happy. And if you don’t fix that people pleasing habit of yours, sacrificing yourself instead of looking for compromises that both people can live with, that habit will most likely negatively impact your new relationship too. So what might be best is to either stay with your current gf or break up but in either case address your people pleasing habits (google solutions for people pleasing and conflict avoidance as that’s a great place to start). You next relationship will be better off for it and you might notice your depression getting even easier to deal with as you learn to respect your needs more.
I get it I do. I’m not saying he did anything wrong. I think it’s more of a psychological thing on her part and something that she needs to work through. The initial shock of seeing him like that when she thought he wouldn’t be like that can be scary.
Boyfriend has been living with me in my rental for the past 9 months now we’re moving to be closer to work so he is buying a home says he wants a future with me but will not put me on the contract but expects me to pay half the bills and mortgage??
No mention of the deposit being paid by her?
It's time to punch out, flyboy.
Thank you. Yeah, I'm not gonna break up with so far perfect girl. I will give her some time and will try to talk with her again