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Date: November 4, 2022
This isn’t a healthy way for him to treat you.
You deserve better than that
Yeah… you did not show a lot of emotional awareness or sensitivity in this situation. But we can't go back in time and do better, so let's figure out what can be done for damage control.
First, is the testosterone thing a temporary issue? Maybe a temporary side effect that is expected to go away in a few months or some reasonably defined time frame? If it's permanent, you may want to give some serious thought to the question of whether you two are going to be sexually compatible in the long run, and also whether he's going to spend the rest of forever resenting you for anything you do to compensate for the gap.
Second, damage control— you should apologize for not being more considerate in the way you approached the vibrator conversation and the situation in general. Reassure him that you love him (if you do) and definitely want to be with him (again, if you do), and that while you do very much value your sexual connection, you also value all the other aspects of your intimacy and mental/emotional/physical connections. Sex is one of the many things you love about him, and of course you miss having sex with him when it happens less often, but that doesn't mean you value him less as a partner, and what you really want is to work together with him to continue building and reinforcing your relationship, which includes finding solutions when things neither of you can control like medical issues cause complications
Also, it's important to remember that it isn't your job to manage his emotions, and you shouldn't even try. It's his job to manage his own emotions, and that includes trusting you to be honest and accepting that you can both love and think highly of him and also have some practical considerations to take care of that may be uncomfortable to talk about.
For committed long-term couples, you never know what your respective medical futures have in store. You want to work with him now to keep things strong during his testosterone situation, and one day, you might need him to work with you to keep things strong while you recover from surgery or go through cancer treatment or heal after childbirth. That's how longer long-term relationships work. Tell him this, and ask him not to shut down conversation by beating himself up because good solutions require input and honest communication between both partners. Neither of you can carry the relationship alone. Two to tango, and they need to be facing each other
You’re both right. You’re right that you can buy whatever you want, and she’s right that you both clearly aren’t on the same page about the future of your relationship.
Yikes
Well if she wants your relationship to work then she might need to get out of her comfort zone